Ukufunda izintende kuwubuciko basendulo, eqinisweni, abaningi bethu abazi lutho ngabo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi usule ukufunda izintende njengenye isemester yekilasi lokubhula likaHarry Potter, ake sifunde kabanzi ngokuthi konke kwaqala kanjani. Futhi ngokuqinisekile uzoba nelukuluku lokwazi ukuthi lingakutshela ini ngawe-konke kusuka empilweni yakho nempilo yothando kuya empumelelweni ebhizinisini nasebuntwini.
NjengaseNew York umfundi wesundu uFahrusha iyakuchaza, azikho izintende zezandla ezimbili ezifanayo futhi zingashintsha futhi ziguquke nathi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi—lokho kusho ukuthi ingcebo yethu eminyakeni yethu engamashumi amabili ingase ingafani naleyo esiseminyakeni yethu engamashumi amane. Uchwepheshe wentende yezandla wephula izisekelo zokufunda izintende ngezansi.
Kuyini ngempela ukufunda kwesandla?
I-Palmistry (i-aka ukufunda izintende) ingenye yezinqubo ezihlaba umxhwele umfundi we-psychic angakwazi ukuzenza kahle ngoba ingenye enzima kakhulu ukuyifunda. Akekho owazi umsuka wayo oqondile, kodwa njengoba uFahrusha esitshela, izimpande zawo zibuyela emuva eNdiya. Khona-ke yalethwa eNtshonalanga ngumnqobi ongumGreki u-Alexander Omkhulu.
Ezingeni eliyisisekelo, ukufunda izintende kusho ukubhekisisa kahle imigqa esezandleni zethu—yonke exhunywe ezicini ezehlukene zempilo yethu, njengalokho okungase kusilindile esikhathini esizayo (*sicela hlangana kahle noBradley Cooper*). Nakuba abanye ochwepheshe bazobheka imigqa esezandleni zethu kuphela, abanye, njengoFahrusha, bacabangela sonke isandla. Uthi izintende zezandla zethu zifana neminwe yethu. Ezakho ziqondene nawe futhi wena wedwa—futhi ukuze uthole umbono ojulile ngokuthi ungubani, umfundi wakho kufanele abheke ukuthi isandla sakho sonke sincane noma sijiyile kangakanani, ubude beminwe yakho nobukhulu bezindunduma (i- izigaxa namaqhubu) ebusweni bezandla zakho.
Ngaphandle kokubheka intende yesandla futhi ugcine imininingwane ngayinye engqondweni, uzibeka engcupheni yokusho izitatimende zokulala, usho kanje. Ukwenza kanjalo kuwukungahloniphi ngoba ukufunda kusuke kumane nje kuyi-generalization. Kufanele ngempela ubheke intende yesandla nesandla somuntu futhi uthathe yonke into ngokulinganayo.
Kodwa ngezinjongo zethu zabaqalayo, ake sigxile emigqeni eyisithupha yezandla zethu esitshela okuningi ngathi-impilo, ikhanda, inhliziyo, i-soulmate, isiphetho kanye nenhlanhla-ngaphandle kokudinga amashumi eminyaka okufunda intende yesandla ngaphansi kwamabhande ethu.
Imuphi kule migqa engiyibhekile?
Siyazi ukuthi kubukeka sengathi kukhona iwebhu yemigqa eyishumi nambili (futhi leyo migqa inemigqa, futhi leyo enemigqa...) entendeni yesandla sakho. Kodwa ngosizo lukaFahrusha, sizokwenza umqondo okungenani ngezinye zazo. Inothi elisheshayo: Isandla sakho sobunxele ngeke sifane ncamashi nesokudla sakho, ngakho-ke sebenzisa isandla sakho esibusayo, njengoba sixhumene kakhulu nalokho oyikho.
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McKenzie CordellLife Line
Ukuze uthole umugqa wakho wempilo, bheka isikhala phakathi komunwe wakho wesikhombi nesithupha entendeni yesandla sakho. Kuzoba nemigqa embalwa lapho, kodwa zama futhi uthole imigqa emibili ebonakalayo ngempela eqala ndawana thize eduze kwephoyinti eliphakathi kwaleyo minwe emibili—umugqa ngamunye uzolandela ijika lentende yesandla sakho ukusuka kuleyo ndawo ukuya phansi, kuya esithendeni sesandla sakho. Zama ukungagxili kuleso esiseduze nesithupha sakho—lena cishe imfushane kancane. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, ulayini omude eduze kwalona ulayini wakho wempilo (phew!).Umzila wakho wokuphila uxhumene kakhulu nempilo yakho, kodwa futhi ungakutshela okuningi mayelana nesimo sakho somzimba jikelele. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi intambo yokuphila izokutshela ukuthi uzophila isikhathi esingakanani, kodwa uFahrusha uthi intambo yokuphila iyinkomba yempilo iyonke. Ngokubheka ukuthi umugqa wakho wempilo ujule noma mncane kangakanani uma uqhathaniswa nobude (ingabe wenza i-crease enzima, ehlehle kakhulu esandleni sakho noma ilula?), ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nempilo yakho. Isibonelo, u-Fahrusha uyachaza, uma ulayini wakho ujulile futhi ugxile kakhulu entendeni yesandla sakho, lokhu kusho ukuthi unamandla amaningi, noma i-chi, nokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi unempilo ngokwemvelo (unenhlanhla). Uma umugqa wakho usohlangothini oluncane kakhulu, ungase ube yilowo muntu ohlale ebanjwe umkhuhlane, noma obhekene nesifo esithinta amazinga akho wamandla, njenge-anemia.
Ukujula noma ukuzaca kubonisa impilo, ngakho-ke kufanele uzinakekele kangcono ngemigqa emincane, kusho uFahrusha.
McKenzie CordellUlayini Wekhanda
Manje njengoba sesiwazi umugqa wempilo, buyela lapho uqala khona phakathi komunwe wakho wesikhombi nesithupha. Kuzoba nomunye umugqa oqala eduze kakhulu nomugqa wakho wempilo, kodwa esikhundleni sokuthatha ijika eliqinile uye phansi, uhamba kakhulu nge-engeli ubheke ohlangothini lwe-pinkie lwesandla sakho. Lona umugqa wekhanda lakho. Umugqa wekhanda uphakathi nje kwemigqa yempilo nenhliziyo.Uma uhlakaniphile (ingabe ukhetha ukufunda izikhumbuzo kunamanoveli enganekwane?), yilapho lo mugqa uzoqondana khona. Abantu abanekhanda eliqondile yilabo bantu benyama namazambane, amantongomane namabhawodi empilweni yakho, kusho uFahrusha. Uma unomugqa wekhanda ogoba kancane, cishe unobuchule obuthe xaxa-futhi lapho ijika lizwakala kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ube ne-outlet yokudala. Uthi lokhu akusho ukuthi wonke umuntu onesihloko esiqinile uzoba umbhali noma umdwebi. Kunalokho, mhlawumbe isihloko sakho esigobile sisho ukuthi ungummeli ocula emakilabhini e-jazz ngezimpelasonto.
McKenzie CordellUmugqa Wenhliziyo
Emuva kulowo mugqa wenhliziyo esiwushilo—utholakala ngokushesha ngaphezu komugqa wekhanda. Lena izogoba futhi izobukeka njengenyanga ecwebezelayo ebheke phansi eyelulela phezulu kwesandla sakho nengxenye egobile ifinyelela phezulu ngasemsuka weminwe yakho, phakathi kwesikhombi ne-pinki.Kodwa naphezu kwegama, umugqa wenhliziyo awuwona umugqa wothando. Ihlanganisa i- umqondo yothando, kodwa imayelana nemizwa ngokujwayelekile-emihle, emibi noma engenandaba, uFahrusha usitshela ukuthi. Abesifazane, njengoba siwubulili obuphakeme ngokomzwelo esiyikho, banomugqa wenhliziyo ogoqa kakhulu—inkomba yombono oqhutshwa imizwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi (ha), amadoda amaningi anomugqa wenhliziyo onejika elingacacile. Ingase iqonde ngqo entendeni yesandla. UFahrusha uthi abanye abantu bazoba nemigqa yenhliziyo nekhanda exhuma ngesikhathi esithile. Labo bantu, bazame ukulawula imizwa yabo ngekhanda. Abanye bangase babe nemigqa yenhliziyo ephukile emaphethelweni njengamajini akho owathandayo. Laba bantu bathatha izinto enhliziyweni futhi bangase babhekane nokuhlukumezeka emoyeni ezimpilweni zabo, usho kanje.
McKenzie CordellI-Soulmate Line
Eyaziwa nangokuthi umugqa womshado kwamanye amasiko, uFahrusha uthanda ukuwubiza ngokuthi umugqa we-soulmate. Ukholelwa ukuthi nakuba kungeyena wonke umuntu ozoshada, wonke umuntu okungenani unomphefumulo oyedwa othandana naye. Lo mugqa—noma imigqa! Okungenzeka!—udwi omfishane kuneminye imigqa esesiyibhekile kuze kube manje. Ungayithola ngaphansi kwe-pinkie yakho. Uma unomugqa ongaphezu kowodwa lapho, lokhu kusho ukuthi uzoba nothando olukhulu olungaphezu kolulodwa (njengoba u-Charlotte eqhubeka Ucansi Nomuzi ngingasho).Le migqa ayisho ukuthi kufanele ushade noma uhlukanise, kusho ukuthi unamathuba ambalwa, kusho uFahrusha. Ungase ube nomphefumulo ongaphezu koyedwa futhi ugcine nomunye wabo, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ogcina eshadile onobudlelwane nomuntu othandana naye.
McKenzie CordellI-Fate Line
Nali i-curveball yakho: Akuwona wonke umuntu onomugqa wekusasa. Kodwa, uma wenza kanjalo, izokwehla kwenye indawo phakathi kwentende yesandla sakho njenge-crease eqondile noma egobile kancane. Abanye abantu abafunda izintende zezandla bathi lo mugqa ungashintsha phakathi nesikhathi sokuphila kwakho nokuthi ungaxhunyaniswa nanoma iyiphi ingxenye enkulu yokuphila kwakho, kusukela ekubeni nomsebenzi ophumelelayo kuya ekukhuliseni izingane ezimangalisayo ngempela. Kodwa futhi kungaba yinkomba yokuqala yento enhle emkhathizwe. Umuntu onomugqa onamandla wokudalelwa eneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili cishe useyazi ukuthi ufuna ukuba yini lapho ekhula, kusho uFahrusha.
McKenzie CordellI-Fortune Line
Ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa ulayini wemali, ulayini wenhlanhla nawo ugijima uqonde esikhundleni sokuvundlile futhi ungomunye umugqa esingabusisiwe ngawo sonke. Uma uyitholile, itholakala eduze nengxenye engaphandle yesandla sakho eduze komunwe we-pinkie. Manje, ungagxili kakhulu uma unayo-inhlanhla ayisho ngempela ukuthi uzoceba. Ngezinye izikhathi, umugqa wenhlanhla uzongena emgqeni wekhanda. Lokho kuwuphawu lokuthi uzoba nomsebenzi ophumelelayo, kusho uFahrusha.Kodwa linda, ake sibuyele emugqeni wempilo. Okwami kufushane. Ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ngizofa kusenesikhathi?
Akunjalo. UFahrusha ukholelwa ukuthi intende yesandla somuntu—ngakho-ke, ikusasa labo—lingashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. (Akubona bonke ochwepheshe bezandla zezandla ababelana ngale ndlela yokucabanga, uthi. Abanye yenza cabanga ukuthi ikusasa lakho limisiwe.) Ake sithi uthole ukufunda lapho uneminyaka engu-32 ubudala futhi umfundi wakho wesundu wakweluleka ukuthi wenze isenzo sakho ndawonye sihlakaniphe ngokwezempilo ngoba umugqa wakho wokuphila ubukeka umfushane kancane. Ngakho-ke waqala ukuzivocavoca nokudla amasaladi, futhi wabuyela kokunye ukufunda ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa lwama-40. Kungenzeka ukuthi usishintshile isiphetho sakho. Kwesinye isikhathi, uthi, imigqa yethu yokuphila-noma eminye imigqa yezandla zethu-ingakhulisa amagatsha noma imigqa yokusiza njengoba abantu bekhula, futhi.
Isiko lamaNdiya ingelinye elingene shí ezinkolweni zobuHindu, ubuBuddha kanye nobuSulumane, futhi ngibahlonipha kakhulu, kodwa labo bantu ikakhulukazi bangababulali, kusho uFahrusha, ebhekise endaweni yokuzalwa yezandla. Kodwa lapha eNtshonalanga, sikholelwa kakhulu ukuthi uyakwazi ukulawula isiphetho sakho. Kungase kube khona ezinye izinto ezidalwe, kodwa eziningi, abaningi izinto zisezandleni zethu ngokwethu. Lena ifilosofi yethu.
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