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Akukho lutho olubuhlungu njengokuthi umuntu omthandayo ngenhliziyo yonke, akakuthandi futhi akakubuyiseli imizwa yakho. Kepha okubi kakhulu lapho kufanele unxuse umlingani wakho ukuthi aqhubeke nobudlelwano.
Ungabathembisa ukuthi uzokwenza izinto njengokuthanda kwabo nokuthanda kwabo, ungalokothi ukhononde nganoma yini noma uze uxolise uma kungelona iphutha lakho kodwa sethembe lokhu kusho ukulahlekelwa isithunzi sakho futhi akukho okunye ebudlelwaneni.
Kunezinye izizathu eziningi ezingakusiza ukwazi ukuthi kungani kuwubuwula ukuncenga umuntu ukuthi aqhubeke nobudlelwano. Skrolela phansi ukuze uqhubeke ufunde futhi wazi okuningi!
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1. Ulahlekelwa Ukuzihlonipha
Ukucela umuntu ongafuni ukwabelana ngempilo yakhe nawe, kufana nokuthi ulahle ukuzihlonipha kwakho. Njengoba uzovuma ukuzishintsha futhi wenze noma yini edingekayo ukujabulisa umlingani wakho, ekugcineni uzolahlekelwa ukuzihlonipha kwakho. Ngeke ube ngumuntu ofanayo. Umlingani wakho angakubheka njengongelutho futhi akuphathe ngokufanele.
2. Ubudlelwano bakho buzwela ekugcineni
Qondisisa ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho sebuvele bufike kwangqingetshe lapho ucela umuntu ukuthi ahlale kubudlelwano. Noma uphumelela ukonga ubudlelwano bakho, abuhlali bunjalo. Ungahle ungatholi uthando nenhlonipho kumlingani wakho njengakuqala. Ngezinye izikhathi, ungazizwa sengathi umlingani wakho umane nje wenza umusa kuwe ngokuhlala nawe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuzoba nguwe kuphela ozobeka umzamo futhi utshale isikhathi nemizwa ebudlelwaneni.
3. Uzakwenu Ukuthathela Ukuthi Unikwe
Lapho umlingani wakho esazi ukuthi uzokwenza noma yini ukusindisa ubudlelwano, angakuthatha kancane. Umlingani wakho ngeke akhathalele ukuthandwa kwakho nokungathandi. Akahle angabheki noma yisiphi sezeluleko nemibono yakho ngenxa yokwenza isinqumo. Eqinisweni, umlingani wakho kungenzeka angahlanganyeli nawe amacebo akhe, izinkinga noma imicabango yakho.
4. Ungadlula Ezinhluphekweni
Njengoba uphoqe umlingani wakho ukuthi ahlale ebudlelwaneni futhi ukulungele ukuzidela kunethuba elikhulu lokuthi ungadlula ochungechungeni lokuhlupheka. Ngokuncenga umlingani wakho ukuthi ahlale ebudlelwaneni, umvumela ngokoqobo ukuthi akuphathe kabi. Kungenzeka angahloniphi imizwa nemizamo yakho. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungahle ubhekane nengcindezi kanye nokungahlaliseki.
5. Umlingani Wakho Angaziphatha Ngokudelela Nawe
Esimweni lapho uye wancenga umlingani wakho ukuthi aqhubeke nobudlelwano, umlingani wakho angavela abe luhlaza impela. Kungenzeka angabi nandaba nemizwa yakho futhi akunikeze ihlombe elibandayo. Futhi, noma ngabe wenzani, angahle acasuke kalula njengoba umlingani wakho engasakufuni. Kepha njengoba kunguwe osabambe ubudlelwano bungahlukani, umlingani wakho uzizwa ekhungathekile futhi ecasukile ngawe.
6. Awujabuli neze
Manje lapho konke sekushintshile, umlingani wakho kungenzeka abe nokukuhlukumeza, kungenzeka ukuthi ungazizwa ujabulile. Kwazi bani ukuthi umlingani wakho angasebenzisa ithuba lokubekezela nokuzidela kwakho. Angase ayisebenzise kabi imali yakho futhi ngeke akhokhele lutho. Lezi zinto ekugcineni zizokwenza uzizwe ulahlekile futhi ungajabule.
7. Uzozithola Ungenakuzisiza
Ungazithola ungenalusizo ebudlelwaneni bakho njengoba usulahlekelwe yigugu lakho empilweni yomlingani wakho. Njengoba ungazimisele ukushiya umlingani wakho, angakuphatha kabi futhi ngalokho, ungazithola ungenalusizo. Noma ngabe nizama ngawo wonke amandla enu ukuvuselela uthando nobumbano phakathi kwenu nobabili, izinto zingase zithathe ithuba elingalungile.
8. Ubudlelwano bakho Buphenduka Ubuthi
Ekugcineni, uzothola ukuthi ubudlelwane bakho sebuphenduke ubuthi njengoba umlingani wakho engavamile ukugxila ezintweni ezinhle. Njengoba umlingani wakho engazimisele nhlobo ukuhlala ebudlelwaneni, kukuthatha kancane, ubudlelwano bakho bungaba yingozi. Esikhundleni sokuzama ukuvuselela uthando, umlingani wakho angakulawula futhi akusongele ngokukushiya uma kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthi ugweme ukumncenga ukuthi aqhubeke nobudlelwano.
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Kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe ukuthi uqonde ukuthi uma umlingani wakho ekushiya lokho akusho ukuthi ulahlekelwe ukuzithemba kwakho. Zama ukuzithanda kuqala. Siphakamisa ukuthi uqale ujabule bese uthandana futhi ungayi ebudlelwaneni ukuthola injabulo. Ubudlelwano bufana nendlu futhi budinga isondlo kubo bobabili abalingani. Uma umuntu ezimisele ukuhamba, kungcono ukuqonda isimo bese uya phambili.