Uchithe usuku ujuluke umanzi; awukaze ugeze kusukela, um, ngoLwesine; futhi uncelisa lokho okubonakala sengathi ihora ngalinye ngehora. Ingabe kuyamangaza ukuthi awuzizwa unothando kakhulu? Kodwa uma ukusondelana ngokomzimba kwenza isikhumba sakho sikhase, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlangabezana nalokho ochwepheshe bokukhulisa izingane abakubona 'kukuthinta.' Nansi isivumelwano.
Kwenzenjani?
Ukuthintwa yilowo muzwa othusayo, womzali omusha wokungafuni ukusondelana ngokomzimba. Ngokuvamile, kuhlobene nomngane wakho womshado—okuthinta kwakhe kungase kukwenze uhlekise ngokoqobo. Kodwa futhi kungenza omama bangafuni ukuthinta izingane zabo, abangani babo noma bavele bazizwe bengenwa amanzi emizimbeni yabo.
Ingabe kujwayelekile?
Ngokwedlulele. Kunhlolovo yeqembu lomama abangenalo isayensi kakhulu yalo mbhali, wonke umuntu wesifazane wake wabhekana nakho ngesinye isikhathi phakathi nezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala zokuphila kwengane yakhe.
Kubangelwa yini?
Lutho, ngokuqondile. Yize abanye abantu becabanga ukuthi izinqubo zokukhulisa izingane ezinamathele njengokulala, ukugqokisa ingane kanye (duh) nokuncelisa kungadala kakhulu, njengoba unesikhathi esincane kakhulu lapho ukhulelwe. hhayi ethinta omunye umuntu.
Manje kufanele ngenzeni ngakho?
Okokuqala, zama ukuthi ungazishayi. Ngokuzayo lapho uzibona ugoqa ibhola elincane lapho umyeni wakho edla ithanga lakho, mane nje uvume lokho okuzwayo futhi uqaphele ukuthi kuzodlula. Okwesibili, ukuxhumana, ukuxhumana, ukuxhumana. Tshela umlingani wakho ukuthi kwenzakalani futhi nibonisane ngezindlela zokuzitholela lokho okudingayo ngempela—kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokho kuwubusuku benu noma ubusuku bosuku lapho nobabili nigqoka futhi nisuka kuso sofa. Okokugcina, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuze uziphushele ukusondelana noma nini nanoma kanjani ( amanye amathiphu uma uwadinga). Ngemva kwakho konke, isayensi igcizelela ukuthi ucansi kanye ngesonto luyisihluthulelo somshado ojabulisayo. Asikwazi ukuphikisana nalokho.
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