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Kungenzeka yini ukuthandana nabantu ababili futhi ubathande ngasikhathi sinye? Yebo, lokho kuzwakala njengokudlala ngomlilo, akunjalo? Uma bobabili bazi ngakho, bazokujula.
Ekuhloleni, amanye amadoda avumile ukuthi athandana nomuntu ongashadile naye. Lapho bebuzwa ukuthi kungani besemshadweni kanti banothando ngaphandle komshado, bavele baphendula bathi babathanda bobabili unkosikazi nenkosikazi!
Funda futhi: Izimpawu Zendaba Engokomzwelo
Ingabe i-bluffing? Noma kungenzeka ngempela ukuthanda abantu ababili ngasikhathi sinye? Ake sixoxe.
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Okokuqala, ake sikhulume ngamadoda amaningi alala nabanye abesifazane ngaphandle komshado. Lokho inkanuko hhayi uthando!
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Manje luyini uthando? Ukwenza lula, uthando luhlobo lobudlelwane obusondelene obukhulayo nomuntu futhi ufinyelele esigabeni lapho impilo ibonakala ingenanjongo ngaphandle kwalowo muntu. Uzizwa uphelele ebukhoneni babo.
Ubudlelwano bugcwele imizwa emihle. Ngakho-ke, uma uthando lolo hlobo lomzwelo olukhulu ukwedlula-impilo, kungenzeka yini ukuthuthukisa uhlobo olufanayo lomuzwa nabantu ababili ngasikhathi sinye?
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Ongoti bezobudlelwano bathi ngesikhathi esithile empilweni, abanye abantu abashadile bangaba nemizwa ngakubantu abangaphandle komshado. Kepha lokho akudingeki ukuthi kubhalwe njengothando njengoba kungaba ukusondelana noma inkanuko noma enye into phakathi.
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Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka yini ukuzizwa unamathele kothile ongaphandle komshado? Yebo, kwesinye isikhathi, kungenzeka. Abanye abantu abashadile baze bacabange omunye umuntu isikhathi esithile.
Abantu bathanda ukucabanga noma ukuphupha ngosuku ngokwenza uthando kubantu abakhangayo. Kepha ukuphupha akubangeli nkinga emshadweni. Akunangozi.
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Lapho ukhangwa othile ongashadile naye, ungaziyeka? Ungakwazi ukulawula imizwa?
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi awukwazi ukulawula imizwa kodwa uyakwazi ukulawula izenzo zakho. Ungavimba ingqondo yakho ukuthi ingakhangi kothile kepha ungazivimba ekugijimeleni lowo muntu.
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Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi awudingi ukuzibeka icala uma ingqondo yakho iphupha ngokulala nomakhelwane wakho oshisayo noma osebenza naye. Kepha ungahlala uzimisa ekusebenziseni imicabango enjalo.
Zonke izinkinga zingavela lapho uzama ukusebenzisa imibono enjalo yobuhlanya. Uma ungenzi lutho, imicabango enjalo izosuka ngokushesha futhi umshado wakho uzohlala uzinzile.
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Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka yini ukuthanda abantu ababili ngasikhathi sinye? Yize kubonakala kungenzeka, uma ubheka ngokujulile, okukodwa kwalokhu kungaba inkanuko, ukukhanga, ukuthatheka, noma inhlonipho esobala, ukuthanda imizwa, ukukhanga ngokwengqondo noma enye into engeke ibe uthando lweqiniso.
