UJaclyn Murphy uneminyaka engu-26 ubudala owasinda emdlavuza futhi ungumsunguli wenhlangano. Abangane be-Jaclyn Foundation .
Eseyingane, uMurphy wayethanda ezemidlalo futhi wajoyina iqembu lendawo le-lacrosse. Kodwa ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho, ngoMashi 26, 2004, odokotela bathola ubuningi obulingana nebhola legalofu ebuchosheni bakhe. Kade kuxilongwa nge-medulloblastoma, isimila sobuchopho esiyingozi, sineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye nje ubudala. Ngemva kwalokho wehla ngo-30% wesisindo somzimba wakhe, waba nokungezwa unomphela futhi kwadingeka aphinde afunde ukuhamba. UMurphy kwadingeka ashiye iqembu le-lacrosse. Kodwa lapho umqeqeshi wakhe ezwa lokho, wanquma ukwenza okuthile.
Wayenokuxhumana naye eNyuvesi yaseNorthwestern futhi emasontweni ambalwa kamuva, ngithola iphakethe lokunakekelwa kuleli qembu, uMurphy utshele In The Know. Kwakukhona ibhola elisayinwe yiqembu, amabhande omjuluko, isikibha kwase kuthi intombazane ngayinye yangibhalela inothi lomuntu siqu.
Ngokushesha wakha isibopho nobuhlobo neqembu labesifazane le-lacrosse. Abasubathi baseNyakatho-ntshonalanga babethumela imiyalezo futhi bamhlole noma nini lapho ebonakele udokotela. UMurphy wayefinyelela lapho benezinsuku zemidlalo.
Ukuthi la mantombazane angisekele ngesikhathi sesidingo engangisidinga kakhulu - kwakubaluleke kakhulu kimi, esho.
Ngolunye usuku esibhedlela, enye intombazanyana eyayilashwa yabuza ukuthi ubani omthumelele umlayezo ongaka. Imibhalo yavela kodade abakhulu bakaMurphy's Northwestern. Ngaleso sikhathi, uMurphy wayazi ukuthi kufanele axhume ezinye izingane kubasubathi.
Abangane be-Jaclyn Foundation yinhlangano engenzi nzuzo, kuchaza uMurphy. Esikwenzayo sihlanganisa izingane ezilwa nomdlavuza wezingane namaqembu ezemidlalo. Lawo maqembu aba ngabafowabo nodadewabo abadala kuleyo ngane nomndeni. Kuwuhlelo lwabo lokusekela. Akuyona into yesizini eyodwa. Bayingxenye yakho impilo yonke.
Okuhlangenwe nakho akugcini nje ngokucebisa imimoya yezingane ezilwa nomdlavuza, empeleni kuthuthukisa impilo yazo.
Sibonile izingane ziphuma kodokotela zithi ngeke zikwazi ukuhamba, ngeke zikwazi ukukhuluma nazo zixhumana neqembu labo futhi ziyakwazi ukuhamba, ziyakwazi ukukhuluma, kusho yena.
Umgomo ka-Murphy ukubona ukuthi zingaki izingane namaqembu angakwazi ukuxhumana nawo.
Uma ngibona leyo ngane imamatheka futhi ayifuni ukuphuma enkundleni noma inkantolo noma igumbi elenza usuku lwami, kuphawula uMurphy. Ngifuna ukusiza izingane eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka, amathuba awapheli.
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