Nakuba inkathi yedijithali yenze ukuphila kwaba lula kithi, okwenza umhlaba ube yindawo exhumene ngempela yokuhlala kuyo; I-flip side iwukuthi abantu manje abaxhumekile kancane ezingeni lomzwelo. Ngakho-ke, sivame ukuthumela imiyalezo esikhundleni sokukhuluma, ikholi yevidiyo esikhundleni sokuhlangana ubuso nobuso futhi sithumele izithombe-mzwelo esikhundleni sokuzwakalisa imizwa yethu kwabaseduze bethu nababathandayo.
Budingani ubuhlobo?
Ukukhulumisana okufanele, ukukhuluma, ukwabelana, ukwethembana, uthando, inhlonipho, ukuhlangana, injabulo, ukuqonda, ukunikeza isikhala, ukugcina ubumfihlo, ukwamukela, isimo sengqondo sokungahluleli, nezinye izinto eziningi, kusho uPrasanna Rabade, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomeluleki wakwa-Disha Psychological Counseling. Isikhungo. Ubuye achaze, uma lezi zindlela zifezwa yinoma iyiphi indlela, akukho nkinga ebuhlotsheni. Ngakho-ke akunandaba ukuthi uxhumeke ngedijithali noma ngezindlela zendabuko. Umeluleki kanye nodokotela wokusebenza kwengqondo u-Parul Khona, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukholelwa ukuthi ukusebenzisa idijithali kwenze ubudlelwano kube nzima kakhulu ukuphatha. Izingcingo, i-Instagram, i-Facebook nezinye izinkundla zokuxhumana zenze ubudlelwano bucindezele kakhulu kunalokho obekungenziwa usuku noma ezimbili ngesonto noma ngaphambili.
Ingabe ukwenza idijithali kwenza ozakwethu bakhathazeke kakhulu?
‘‘Umyalezo ohlale uvela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana uyamangalisa, uzizwa uKhona. Abantu balokhu behlola ukuthi ingabe omunye wabo uku-inthanethi yini, uzakwethu ubenesikhathi esingakanani ku-inthanethi noma ufunde umlayezo kodwa wangaphendula? 'Lesi sidingo esiqhubekayo sokwazi ukuthi umlingani wenzani singafaka isipanela ebudlelwaneni,'' uzizwa.Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, uRabade ukholelwa ukuthi ubuchwepheshe buhle ngoba busekela ukuxhumana okusheshayo nokulula, ukukhuluma, futhi kuvumela ukuxhumana okwengeziwe, kukuvumela ukuthi ugxile ezinkumbulo, futhi uxhumane nabanye kakhulu kunangaphambili. I-Digitization iyisibusiso kulabo abasebudlelwaneni obude. Nokho, sezihambile izinsuku lapho abantu babevame ukuxhumana ngokubhalelana izincwadi. Yize imibhangqwana ezibophezelekile ingakwazi ukubonga intuthuko kwezobuchwepheshe ngokwanele ukubasondeza naphezu kwebanga, ubuchwepheshe bubususile ubuhle nokusondelana incwadi ebhalwe ngesandla ebingaxhumana kahle nayo.
Yibuphi ubuhle nobubi bobudlelwano enkathini yedijithali?
I-Khona icacisa ukuthi izithandani ziyakwazi ukuhlobanisa kangcono ne-digitisation. I-Facebook isenza sazi ukuthi umuntu ucabangani, noma wenzani, noma akulalele, futhi lokho ngokusobala kudala ‘ukuxhumana’. Eqinisweni, kunobunye ubudlelwano obuqala ku-inthanethi, futhi maduzane buphuma kokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi ukuze bube ubudlelwano emhlabeni wangempela! Njengaleyo ye-blogger yokudla u-Megha Chhatbar's. Uhlangane nomyeni wakhe, u-Bhavesh, enkundleni yezokuxhumana eyayidumile ngaleso sikhathi i-Orkut, eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, futhi useshadile ojabulayo kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. Baqala ukuhlangana phakathi kwengxoxo yenkundla yezintshisekelo ezifanayo e-Orkut. Ngemva kokuxoxa esithangamini, ngabona ukuthi sibheka izinto ngendlela efanayo, ngakho ngamthumelela isicelo sobungane. Impendulo yakhe yayiwukuthi, ‘Ngikubona njengozoba umkami ngakho thumela i-imeyili yakho futhi sizoxoxa ngeposi.’ Ngamangala! Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa zama-imeyili, saqala ukukhuluma ocingweni. Phakathi nesonto nje, sase sibonane mathupha. Saba nobuhlobo obuhle kangangokuthi weza eJaipur ezokhuluma nomndeni wami ngomshado. Lapho sebevumile, phakathi kwezinsuku eziyi-10, umndeni wami wavakashela indawo yakhe ePune futhi senza i-roka (umshado). Izinsuku zaqedwa futhi sashada phakathi nezinyanga ezine!Ngakho-ke, ubudlelwano enkathini yedijithali bunjengoba ubudlelwano babunjalo ngaphambili, kodwa imibhangqwana idinga ukugcina izinto ezimbalwa engqondweni. Isibonelo, ukusondelana kungabiwa kuphela lapho abantu ababili bebukana hhayi ezintweni zabo, uKhona ukholelwa. URabade uveza ukuthi ukuxhumana kubalulekile. Lalelani omunye nomunye futhi nixoxe ngemizwa yenu ngaphandle kokungabaza.
Ukuthola uthando emhlabeni obonakalayo
Ngokumasha okusheshayo kobuchwepheshe emashumini ambalwa eminyaka adlule, akumangazi ukuthi sonke isimo sokuqomisana sesishintshile. Ukuqomisana ku-inthanethi ekugcineni sekuthole indawo yayo eNdiya. Ngakho-ke, qhubeka uthole leyo onyakazisa ngayo, ngenxa yazo zonke lezi zinhlelo zokusebenza onazo.I-Tinder: Kakade iwuhlelo lokusebenza olwaziwayo lokuqomisana emhlabeni wonke, i-Tinder isanda kungena eNdiya. I-algorithm yayo ngokungangabazeki iyisiphakamiso sayo esiyingqayizivele sokuthengisa futhi inamandla okukuxhumanisa nomuntu onomqondo ofanayo esikhathini esingaphansi komzuzu. I-Tinder inezici ezimangalisayo njengabangane abahlanganyeli kanye nenketho efana kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhetha ukuvumela iphrofayela yakho itholwe abanye abantu futhi uxhumane nalabo osuvele ubathandile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, uhlelo lokusebenza lukunikeza ithuba lokuphatha imiphumela yakho yosesho ngokusekelwe kuzinto ezifana neminyaka noma ibanga.
Abashadile: Ukuzabalaza kwesizukulwane esisha esihamba ngendlela evamile yokuthola umlingani wokuphila kwasusa umqondo wokwethula i-Marrily. Kuyisicelo sokufanisa umshado esigxile kochwepheshe abagxile emisebenzini abangathanda ukweqa imibandela evamile yomshado njengoba ibalwe kumawebhusayithi omshado. I-Marrily isebenzisa izici eziningi zokuqinisekisa ezihlakaniphile ezinjengokubhaliswa kwe-Facebook kanye nokuqinisekisa ngezithombe ozishuthe zona, iqinisekisa amaphrofayili angempela. Yethule umqondo we-Marrily Socials lapho imicimbi efana namamuvi, ukunambitha iwayini, ubusuku begeyimu, njll. ihlelelwa abangashadile abakhethiwe lapho bethola khona ithuba lokuhlanganyela futhi bathole ukuthi bayathandana yini.
Injabulo: Uhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana lwaseNdiya, oludalwe kukhunjulwa abantu okungenzeka bangabi yi-tech-savvy. Uhlelo lokusebenza lunokusebenza okubonakalayo komsebenzisi okwenza izinto zibe lula kumsebenzisi, futhi luqinisekisa ukuthi abesifazane bayisici esinqumayo. Uma amadoda efuna ukujoyina umphakathi, adinga ukuvotelwa iqembu labesifazane. Ukugcwaliswa okuphelele kwephrofayili kulolu hlelo lokusebenza kuzokusiza ukuthi ufaniswe ngokushesha nangempumelelo. Isici esihlaba umxhwele sokuqinisekiswa komsindo nevidiyo yinto eyenza lolu hlelo lokusebenza luhluke.
Ngempela Madly: Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lukwazile ukudala igagasi elikhulu njengoba liwuzakwabo waseNdiya weTinder. Isiza umuntu ukuthi athole okufanayo ngokusekelwe kuzithakazelo nezintandokazi, adlulele ngale kwemingcele yobudala nebanga. Isici esiyingqayizivele salolu hlelo lokusebenza ukuthi aluqinisekisi nje kuphela ukuphepha kwezithombe zakho kodwa futhi lukhuthaza umsebenzisi ukuthi acele abangani bakhe ukuthi babagunyaze ukuze bathole amaphuzu 'okwethenjwa' angcono. Lokhu ekugcineni kuholela umsebenzisi enanini eliphezulu lezingxoxo namameshi. Uhlelo lokusebenza luphinde lukhuthaze abasebenzisi ukuthi badlale imidlalo ethile ngokufana kwabo njenge-Styletastic ne-Foodie Funda okubasiza ukuthi bazane kangcono.
Hawu: Iwuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana nokumatanisa olugxile kochwepheshe abafundile kuphela. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lubandakanya abasebenzisi ngenxa yezici ezifana ne-Voice Intro, Ukusesha Umaka, Ukusakaza Kwemibuzo kanye nemiyalezo eqondile. I-algorithm yalolu hlelo lokusebenza isiza umsebenzisi ukuthi athole okufanayo ngokususelwe kumathegi athakaselayo futhi ivumela umsebenzisi ukuthi abheke ukufana okungenzeka ngesisekelo sethegi eyodwa esihlokweni onomuzwa wokuthi usithakasela kakhulu.
Okufakwe ngu-Ruchi Shewade
