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Umuntu ongakaze akholelwe ku-'Luthando ', umlingo walo, i-V Day futhi ngokuyisisekelo akakaze athathe isikhathi sokusebenza kwami, aze acabange noma ukuthi igama lezinhlamvu ezine lingayibopha kanjani imiphefumulo emibili impilo yonke? Ngaphezu kwalokho, bekungeke kwenzeke ukuthi umuntu onjengami amukele iqiniso lokuthi abantu bangazikhethela empeleni abalingani babo bempilo kungakapheli nemizuzu embalwa bekhulumile kuseto lwendabuko lomshado ohleliwe. Umlandeli oqinile walaba, wayengakaze azizwe, ngaphambi kokuba ngihlangane noSuriya, ngemuva kokuba abazali bami benginike isithombe sakhe isiphakamiso sokuqala esasiwela izigaxa zokuqala. Yize ingxoxo yathatha imizuzu engama-45 kuphela, ngakwazi ukunquma ngazwi linye, njengoba ngangikhishwe ngokuphelele ubulula bakhe! Ngakho-ke kwakungumshado ohleliwe.Lokho bekungukuqala kwendaba yethu yangempela yothando! Abakaze bakholelwe abangani bami lapho belandisa iziqephu zabo ezifanayo, kunalokho abakwazanga ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi bavumelane ngokuphila impilo ndawonye ngemuva nje kokukhuluma nababezobalingani babo kanye, ngaphansi kokuhlelwa kwendabuko komshado ohleliwe. Lapho kwenzeka kimi, yonke imibono yami yaphikisana, njengoba kwakudingeka ngikwamukele ukuthi kuyasebenza ngempela.
Konke lokhu kuqale ngomhlaka-14 Novemba 2010 (bekungeyona i-V Day kodwa lelo wusuku lwethu olukhethekile). Umhlangano wethu wokuqala wawuseCofi Day. Njengoba umugqa wethegi usho, 'Noma yini ingenzeka ngaphezulu kwenkomishi yekhofi', ebibukeka njengesilinganiso esenzelwe thina nje, njengoba lokho kuqinisekisa ukuthi sihamba sibambene ngezandla! Yilapho ngabona khona ukuthi indebe nayo ingishayile! Leyo mizuzu engama-45 yayisho ukuthi, ngangilunge ngokuphelele nakho konke, yize ngangingakaze ngivume ukuyekethisa kunoma ngubani ekhaya noma kubangani bami, konke kwenzeka naye, esazibuza ukuthi kwenzekeni, ngenkathi ngikwazi ukuthola isizathu!
Ngempela bekungokokuqala ngizwa ukuthi kunomuntu obenginakekela ngaphezu kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngagcina ngijabule kakhulu njengoba ngangikwazi ukukhuluma nomuntu osondele kakhulu enhliziyweni yami ngemuva komfowethu, engangixoxa naye konke.
Ukuba Othandweni, kwangiguqula ngokuphelele! Eqinisweni, ngangizwe okuningi mayelana nokuthi uthando lumguqula kanjani umuntu, futhi lumenze abe yimbongi, kepha ngashaqeka impela lapho ngiqala ukubhala amavesi, ngazicaphuna! Yilapho abangane bami bangitshela ukuthi lokho kungumphumela woThando! Kubonakale kuphindwe kabili ngemuva kokuthembisana kwethu, njengoba isikhathi sethu sokuqomisana sithatha izinyanga eziyi-7. Yakufaka kugobolondo lomantongomane, ukuba nesethembiso kwakumangalisa nje.
Ngalezo zinyanga eziyisikhombisa zokuqomisana, yonke into yathatha ukubuyela emuva, sibonga amashejuli ethu amatasa abesivumela ukuthi sihlangane ngezimpelasonto kuphela, emva komsebenzi njengoba ngangivame ukuthola ama-offs off kanye emavikini amabili. Kepha, sikwazile ukubasusa bonke labo, futhi sihlangane lapho kungenzeka khona.
Ngenkathi ukuqomisana kwethu kuqhubeka, uhambo olusemthethweni oluya 'esiqhingini separele' lwenza izinto zaba zimbi kakhulu, okwakuwuhambo lwami lokuqala ngqa, ngingedwa! Kude nabazali, bekuyinto ebikhathaza kakhulu, ngenkathi ngigubha usuku lwami lokuzalwa ngingedwa ezweni elingumakhelwane, kuvele kwengeza ukudana okukhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho, kwafika isimanga sempilo yami, njengoba ngathola ucingo luvela kuSuriya, futhi ngazi ukuthi wayeze yonke indlela ezongifisela usuku lwami lokuzalwa! Yilapho ngabona khona ukuthi naye usangene othandweni! Kwakuyisikhathi esikhetheke kunazo zonke sendaba yethu yangempela yothando. Usengawubiza ngomshado ohleliwe?
Kube isimanga impela, njengoba ngithole i-e-card entsha esitelekeni sango-12 ekuseni kanye nezifiso ezithandekayo eziyigugu ngempela. Yize wayengibizele ukufisa, akakaze aveze ukuthi empeleni wayeza ukuzongihlangabeza!
Ngivume izikhathi ezingama-zillion ukuthi ukube ngike ngaba sesimweni sakhe, ngabe angikaze ngithathe isinqumo esinesibindi esinje! Yize kungikhumbuze ngeVaranam Aayiram, empeleni bekungummangaliso omuhle. Usuku lokuzalwa olukhumbuleka kakhulu!
Uma lokho bekunganele, uhambo losuku olulodwa lokuwa eChunchi, nalo lwalucindezelwa ngesikhathi sisathandana, ngaphandle kokuvakashela zonke izinxanxathela zezitolo nezindawo zokudlela eziningi ezilandelwa ama-movie.
Ngezintshisakalo ezifanayo, abantu abacishe bafane, bengenayo imibono ephikisanayo, eyethu 'kube yinganekwane ephelele, ekugcineni eba yisizathu nemfihlo ye-innings ephumelelayo njengendoda nomfazi. Izikhathi eziningi ngesikhathi sokuqomisana kwethu ziyisisekelo esifanayo. Isikhathi esisagolide kusuka kuNov 2010 kuya kuSep 2011 senze iqhinga, eligcine seliphindaphindwe kabili ngemuva komshado, njengoba sekuyizinyanga ezinhlanu manje. Njengoba ukuqomisana kwakwenze imilingo phakathi kwezinhliziyo njengoba sazi ngaso leso sikhathi ukuthi asikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle komunye nomunye. Yilokho impela ubuhle boThando!
Nge-V Day uthatha umyalezo ovela kule ndaba ukuthi ngenhlanhla encane umshado ohleliwe nawo ungaguqulwa ube ngumshado wothando.
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