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Ubudoda besilisa yisimo sengqondo esingokwemvelo. Kungaba kuhle noma kube kubi ngoba kuncike esimweni sendoda. Kuba nzima ukuthatha i-ego engemihle futhi ubhekane nayo. Okubi kakhulu lapho indoda ingazami ukugcina isithunzi sayo ngemuva ebudlelwaneni.
Ubulili obuvelele buziqhenya kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi futhi kunzima kowesifazane ukubhekana nalesi simo sengqondo. Ebudlelwaneni, i-ego yabo bobabili abalingani akufanele ihlangane. Kepha ngeshwa, le ego iyavela njalo, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokulwa.
'Ngeke ngithathe isinyathelo ngimvumele eze', yilokho okuhamba emqondweni womuntu. Amadoda angama -gogo agodliwe kakhulu futhi kunzima kuwo ukuzivumelanisa nanoma ngubani. Kungakuhle ukugcina isithunzi sakho siphila ngezikhathi ezinjalo. Uma engalungile kuwe maqondana nokuziphatha ungathathi isinyathelo. Mnike isikhathi sokuba ajwayelekile. Lokhu kungaphula kuphela ukuzazisa kwakhe.
Ungalokothi uzibheke njengophansi phambi kwakhe. Umthetho omkhulu onzima kwabesifazane ukuthi ungawi noma ulahlekelwe phambi kwabesilisa. Uma benza kanjalo, isithombe sabo sizowela ngaphansi kwezinga lomuntu futhi lokhu kwehluka kuzonamathela engqondweni yakhe kuze kube phakade. Ukugcina isithunzi sakho phambi komuntu wakho lapho ekhombisa ukuzazisa kuwe kuzokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nobudoda besilisa ngezinga elikhulu.
Abesilisa bacabanga ukuthi akunzima kubo ukufeza noma yini abayifunayo. Ngamafuphi, bazethemba ngokweqile ikakhulukazi maqondana nothando. Kungumqondo wabo ovamile ukuthi amantombazane azoza kubo njengoba bekholelwa ukuthi amantombazane awafuna ngaphezu kwabo. Phula lo mbono ngokuba ngumuntu oguqukayo kulo mongo. Uma wazi ukuthi indoda yakho ingumuntu ozithandayo bese uzama ukungakuvezi ukuthi umfuna kabi. Kuyimvelo yomuntu ukuthi uhambe ifu 9 uma othile ehlanya ngawe.
Shiya umuntu wakho yedwa uma ezama ukubukisa ngesimo sakhe kunoma yisiphi isici. Uma ukugqashuka kwakhe kufanelekile futhi ukuphendula kwakho kulimaza isithunzi sakhe phambi kwabangane bakho noma izihlobo bese uzama ukukuxazulula ngokushesha. Uma i-ego yomuntu ilimele kanye, ihlala isikhathi eside futhi ivame ukonakalisa ubudlelwano.
Amadoda kuyaqabukela awamukele amaphutha awo agobe. Zama ukumenza abone iphutha lakhe njengoba kuzobulala ukuzidla kwakhe kuphela. Ukuxolisa okukodwa noma isinyathelo sokukuthukuthela yilokho akugwema kepha idlanzana lamadoda alikuthathi liziqhenye. Bayakuqonda ukuthi kuyiphutha labo ngakho-ke bazama ukuvala isimilo sakhe.
Qonda izimpawu azibonisayo uma ezama ukusondela. Musa ukwamukela ngokushesha. Thatha isikhathi bese umenza akholwe ukuthi uyaliqonda iphutha lakhe nelakho. Ungalokothi ubonise ukuzazisa kwakho uma ezama ukuvala amaphutha akhe. Lokhu kungangeza okuningi ku-ego yakhe bese kuthi ekugcineni i-ego yakho ibonakalise ubudlelwano bakho.
Ungalokothi uxolise phambi kwendoda yakho uma ungenaphutha. Okungenani ukuzazisa kwakhe kuzomvimba ukuthi angakhulumi nawe izinsuku noma amasonto ambalwa kepha uzokuza kuwe ekugcineni njengoba uthando lwakhe luyoqina ngokufana ne-ego yakhe. Ukubhekana ne-egoist akunzima kangako. Konke okudingayo isibindi nokuhlakanipha ukuphendula emuva ku-ego yakhe ebusayo.