Kungenzeka ukuthi uke wezwa ngazo ngesikhathi udlula, kodwa awukaze uqonde ukuthi la makhasi asekuseni ayemayelana nani—okuthile mayelana nokubhala ngo-a.m.? Awukude, kodwa kusekhona okunye okuthe xaxa endabeni. Nakhu konke odinga ukukwazi mayelana nomkhuba ukubona ukuthi kungenzeka yini kube yinto yokukukhipha kuleyo funk ka-2020.
Ayini ngempela amakhasi asekuseni?
Amakhasi asekuseni awumsebenzi wokubhala owasuka ku EkaJulia Cameron Indlela Yomculi , incwadi ngokuyisisekelo esiphenduke ibhayibheli lendlela yokwenza ukusiza abasunguli banqobe izithiyo zomgwaqo. Elinye lamathuluzi abaluleke kakhulu le ncwadi elinikezayo umsebenzi wamakhasi asekuseni adumile, umkhuba ongokwesiko wokuthatha ipeni ulibeke ephepheni njalo ekuseni kanye nokubhala amakhasi amathathu agcwele emicabango elandelanayo—akukho okuhleliwe noma okugodliwe. Ubhala amakhasi amathathu nje. Mayelana nanoma yini. Yilokho kuphela. Inhloso iwukunqoba wonke lawo mazwi amancane (noma amakhulu) ngemuva kwekhanda lakho akuvimbela ekufinyeleleni iqiniso lakho.
Ingabe kufanele ube ngumuntu ohlakaniphile ukuze wenze amakhasi asekuseni?
Nakuba incwadi ka-Cameron iqondiswe kumaciko—abaculi, ababhali, izimbongi, abadansi, abadlali, njll—umbono obanzi wokunqoba imingcele nemingcele esizidalele yona egameni lokuzithuthukisa nokuzitholela yona ungasebenza kunoma iyiphi indawo. isipiliyoni somuntu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unesithakazelo ekufinyeleleni amaqiniso angokomzwelo mayelana nobudlelwane empilweni yakho noma ukumba ukuthi yiziphi izinjongo zakho zangempela zomsebenzi, amakhasi asekuseni afana nokwelapha-kunconywa kunoma ubani ovulekile kulokho okungase kuphume ohlelweni.
Kungani ziwusizo kangaka?
Ngokusobala, amakhasi wasekuseni akuyona i-elixir yomlingo ezoxazulula zonke izinkinga zakho. Lokho kusho…uma ufaka isikhathi nomzamo futhi uthuthukisa umkhuba wokwethembeka ukubhala , ungathola izinzuzo emsebenzini owenzayo ngokukhipha imicabango yakho ejulile futhi ugxile kulokho okufunayo ngempela, okudingayo noma ithemba lakho. Ngesimo sawo esicwebezelwe kakhulu, amakhasi asekuseni asiza abantu ukuthi bahlukanise okungalungile noma okubakhathazayo ezimpilweni zabo futhi abasize belaphe.
Isibonelo, mhlawumbe uqale uhambo lwakho lwamakhasi asekuseni ngenxa yokuthi ubukhathazeke kakhulu ngemiphumela ye-COVID-19 ezimpilweni zomphakathi zezingane zakho nasemathemba okufunda. Emavikini amabili wokuzijwayeza kwakho kwansuku zonke, ungathola ukuthi ukufaka izinkathazo zakho ekhasini kuye kwasusa ikhanda lakho ukuze ubhekane nezinkinga ezijulile enhliziyweni yezinkathazo zakho: wesaba ukuthi ingane yakho izoba nenkinga efanayo nesikole obunaso.
Indaba ende kafushane: Ukucaca okulethwa ukuphrakthiza kwekhasi lasekuseni kungase kube ukuchaphaza kwamanzi abandayo ebusweni bakho okudingayo ukuze uthathe isinyathelo esilandelayo sempilo yakho ubheke endaweni entsha esikhundleni sokungenzi lutho endaweni efanayo yokudideka.
KULUNGILE, ngakho-ke ngiqala kanjani ukwenza amakhasi asekuseni?
Imithetho yamakhasi asekuseni
1. Ungazivumeli ukuthi uphazamiseke
Ngisho noma amakhasi amathathu ebonakala esabekayo, ungalubambi ucingo lwakho noma usukume wenze umsebenzi othile. Hlala ugxilile, noma ngabe ingqondo yakho ikuvumela ukuthi ulandelele uhlu lwakho lwegrosa.
2. Ungabelani noma ufunde amakhasi akho asekuseni
Uzophetha ngokuhlela ngokwakho imicabango yakho uma kukhona ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi elinye iqoqo lamehlo lizobona amagama akho. Iphuzu eliphelele lamakhasi asekuseni ukwamukela ngokujulile imicabango yakho. Ngakho-ke, vumela ukwazi kwakho kuzule. Futhi yebo, lokho kusho ukuyeka ukufunda amakhasi akho. Sesikushilo lokho, uma ufuna ukuhlola imicabango edlule, linda inyanga noma ngaphezulu, ukuze ungaxhumi noma yimiphi imibono yehlazo noma ukwahlulela nomsebenzi wakho.
3. Kwenze nsuku zonke
Hhayi, ulale! Yenza amakhasi akho enziwe kusihlwa. Kulungile. Ungashintshi, kodwa ungazijezisi.
Nakhu okudingayo ngaphambi kokuthi uqale umkhuba wakho:
1. Isitsha sokubhala
2. Ijenali noma iphedi lephepha
3. Isikhathi esibekelwe eceleni osukwini lwakho (okungcono ekuseni) ukuze uqedele amakhasi amathathu agcwele
Ingabe udinga ipeni nejenali esezingeni eliphezulu ukuze uqalise lolu hambo lokuzihambela? Vele akunjalo. Kodwa, uma ucabanga ukuthi ukutshala imali emikhiqizweni embalwa yekhwalithi kuzokugqugquzela, kwenzele lokho. Futhi udinga ukubhala ekuseni? Akudingekile—zinike isikhathi samakhasi amathathu kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yosuku ekusebenzelayo. Siyawuthanda umqondo wasekuseni ngoba ungawuhlanganisa kalula komunye umjikelezo okungenzeka ukuthi usunawo kakade: ikhofi lakho le-am. Kusho futhi ukuthi ubuchopho bakho buphapheme kancane, ngakho-ke mancane amathuba okuba ubambe eyakho imicabango.
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