Usizo! Ingane yami encane ilokhu ibambe amathambo ami, okungelula neze uma siphambi kwabantu. Kungani enza lokhu (futhi ngimenza kanjani ukuba ayeke)?
Ngaphandle kokwazi okwengeziwe ngesimo sakho esithile, kunzima ukusho ukuthi kungani ingane yakho encane yenza lokhu kuziphatha, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi empeleni kuvame kakhulu (futhi akukho ongakuthusa ngakho).
Izingane ezisanda kulunyulwa ngenxa yokuncela ibele ngokuvamile zizobamba amabele ngenxa yomkhuba. Bakwenza futhi lokhu lapho sebefunde ukuhlobanisa amabele kamama nokuzithiba. Futhi enye incazelo engenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho encane ifuna ukwazi noma ingathanda indlela amabele akho azizwa ngayo!
Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, useqophelweni lapho ofuna ukuthi ukuziphatha kume. Ngakho, ukwenza kanjani lokho? Beka imingcele ecacile. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi isike yawathinta amabele kamama futhi iyazi ukuthi izizwa kanjani, futhi njengoba isikhula akusekho ukuthinta izitho zangasese—phambi kwabantu noma ngasese. Ungakwenza lokhu ngenkathi uphakamisa isandla sakhe ngesineke usisusa ebeleni lakho. Angase abhikishe kodwa ahlale eqinile (ngendlela ezwelayo, kunjalo).
Enye inketho ukunikeza ingane yakho into yesikhashana. Kwabanye, lesi isithupha sabo, kodwa kungase futhi kube ingubo yokulala ethambile ethambile, umcamelo, noma isilwane esigcwele usilika. Le nto ingasiza ukududuza ingane yakho lapho ilele, ikhathazekile noma ikhungathekile. Uma engajabuli nganoma iyiphi yalezi zinto, bheka ukuthi ungamthakazelisa yini kwesinye sezikibha zakho ezindala ezimhlophe ezithambile (ezingageziwe ukuze zinuke njengekamama).
Iphuzu elibalulekile: Lokhu kuziphatha ngeke kuhlale unomphela, kodwa ungasiza ukukunqanda ngokukhuluma ngokukhululekile nengane yakho futhi udale imingcele enengqondo.
UDkt. Fran Walfish uyisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esizinze eCalifornia nomndeni kanye nobudlelwano kanye nombhali we Umzali Ozaziyo.
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