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'Akekho umuntu wesilisa ongamthanda njengaye.' Wonke amantombazane angavuma kulokhu. Uma amadodana esondelene nonina, amadodakazi asondele kakhulu koyise. Akekho umuntu owake walushaya uthando lukababa ngendodakazi yakhe.
Noma ngubani angaba ngubaba, kepha kuthatha umphefumulo ukuba ngubaba wangempela. Umuntu akakwazi ukuba ngubaba nje ngaphandle kokuthatha imisebenzi kababa.
Ubuhlungu bokukhulisa amantombazane abo iminyaka nangemva kokuwakhulisa njengesitshalo somntwana, omunye umuntu uthi uyawathanda kanti uyawathatha impilo yabo yonke.
Lo mbhalo uzosilela ekutheni kungani indodakazi izohlala iyinto eyigugu kunazo zonke kubaba, kepha ukwenza usuku lweSuku lukaYihlo lube olukhethekile, sihlanganise izizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu nezifanele zonke izindodakazi ezingazazi.
Ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi lezi zizathu ezenza amadodakazi asondele kakhulu koyise:
Ubaba Nendodakazi Ukubopha
Yebo, ngenkathi amadodana engabesifazane abathandekayo, amadodakazi azohlala ebusa izinhliziyo zikababa. Kuhlala kuthiwa okuphikisana kuyafana, yebo kuyalandela nalapha. Obaba bathambekele kakhulu emadodakazini abo futhi amadodakazi abo athambekele kobaba babo ngenxa efanayo.
Izinga Lokuvikelwa
Obaba bahlala bevikela kakhulu amadodakazi abo. Bahlale benovalo lokulahlekelwa yibo beyiswa kwenye indoda. Benza isiqiniseko sokuthi akukho monakalo owake wehlela kuvemvane labo elincane. Bayazi ukuthi amadoda alungile futhi amabi kanjani. Zivikela ukuthi akekho umuntu omuhle ozobathanda ngaphezu kwakhe futhi umuntu omubi ngeke abalimaze nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ubaba uhlala evikela endodakazini yakhe uma kuqhathaniswa nendodana yabo.
Amadodakazi Amatshe Ayigugu
Indodakazi ibhekwa njalo njengempahla kababa. Ubaba akalokothi athathe noma yini emadodakazini, kunalokho uqhubeka emnika impilo yonke. Ubaba ngaso sonke isikhathi ubheka indodakazi yakhe njengempahla yokuphila. Akunandaba ukuthi ubaba ucebile noma umpofu kangakanani, kepha uma enendodakazi, uhlala eyibheka njengetshe eliyigugu. Alikho igolide elikwazi ukushaya inani lentombazane.
Ukushada Kwendodakazi
Kusukela ngosuku lokuzalwa kwendodakazi kuyise, uphupha ngomshado wendodakazi yakhe bese eyinika omunye umuntu isandla. Cabanga nje ukuthi wondla indodakazi iminyaka, ubheke njengengxenye yenhliziyo yakho futhi ngolunye usuku kufanele uyinikeze omunye umuntu. Yize wonke ubaba ephupha ngayo, noma kunjalo uhlala esaba futhi edabukisa ukukwenza. Kuthiwani uma engamkhethelanga umlingani okahle noma kuthiwani uma engakwazi ukumnikeza enye indoda.
Yini ikhaya ngaphandle kwengane yentombazane?
Hhayi obaba kuphela, kepha wonke umndeni uyayithanda lapho kuzalwa intombazane. Intombazane emndenini ayiyona nje intandokazi kababa kuphela kodwa uphaya wama-apula wawo wonke umuntu. Kusukela ngosuku lokuzalwa kwendodakazi, wonke umuntu ujabulile ukuyikhulisa, ayikhulise, ayifundise bese eyashada. Kuba yisifiso somndeni wonke ukumbona ethola umakoti. Indodakazi ibhekwa njengomcebo wendlu.
Kumnandi Kakhulu Ukugqoka Indodakazi
Wonke umuntu emndenini ukujabulele kakhulu ukumgqokisa ngokushesha nje lapho ezalwa. Lapho indodakazi izalwa ngubaba, ubaba ujabula kakhulu ukuthi uzomthengela lezi zinto ezinhle kangaka. Uhlale ejabule ukumtholela izinto ezintsha nezingubo. Ngokungafani namadodana, amadodakazi awalokothi abe nesidina ukudlala nawo futhi agqoke nawo.
Izindaba Zempumelelo Zendodakazi Zenza Ubaba Wayo Aziqhenye
Noma nini lapho indodana ifinyelela impumelelo, ubaba nomndeni abajabuli futhi abajabule kangako lapho indodakazi yabo iphumelela. Sonke siyazi ukuthi indodana kungenzeka ukuthi yenze okuthile noma okunye noma isize uyise ebhizinisini, kepha yisikhathi sokuziqhenya kakhulu sanoma yimuphi ubaba ukukhombisa umhlaba ukuthi indodakazi yakhe izuze okuthile. Hhayi ubaba kuphela, kepha wonke umuntu uzizwa aziqhenya noma nini lapho indodakazi yakhe iphumelela.
Egcina Njalo Baba
Indodakazi idlala indawo kanompempe phakathi kukababa nomama. Noma nini lapho abazali bezwa ukuthi bayaphelelwa uthando, indodakazi ibanikeza isizathu sokuthandana kakhulu. Lapho ubaba nomama beveza ingxabano noma bexabana, indodakazi igcina njalo uhlangothi lukababa futhi ibe ngunompempe.
Amagama azohlala esilela ngenkathi kuchazwa ubudlelwano bukababa nendodakazi.
