Ingabe uzizwa izinto kuqala bese ucabanga okwesibili? Ingabe ujwayelene kakhulu nemizwa yalabo abakuzungezile kangangokuthi umzimba wakho usabela emizweni yabo njengokungathi eyakho? Newsflash, ungase ube i uzwela . Funda ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nozwela, nokuthi kusho ukuthini uhlobo uvela kuDkt. Judith Orloff, owabhala incwadi ekhuluma ngozwela— Umhlahlandlela Wokusinda we-Empath .
Iyini I-Empath?
Nakuba isici kungeyona i-ESP ncamashi, ukuzwelana kuvumelana ngokujulile nalokho abantu ababazungezile abakuzwayo— ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama —futhi uzizwele leyo mizwa njengokungathi eyayo, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kokukhipha izwi. I-Empaths izwa izinto kuqala, bese cabanga, okuphambene nendlela abantu abaningi abasebenza ngayo emphakathini wethu ohlakaniphe ngokweqile. Ngokuka-Orloff, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuzwela okuphezulu kuthinta cishe amaphesenti angama-20 abantu, nakuba izinga lokuzwela komuntu lingahluka.
Uyini Umehluko Phakathi Kokuba Nozwela nokuba Nesihawu?
Nakuba amagama ecishe afane, ukuba nozwela nokuba nozwela kuyizinto ezimbili ezihlukene. Per Orloff, Uzwela Okuvamile lusho ukuthi inhliziyo yethu izwela omunye umuntu lapho ebhekene nesikhathi esinzima. Kodwa-ke, ama-Empaths azwa imizwa yabanye abantu, amandla kanye nezimpawu zomzimba emizimbeni yabo.
Yiziphi Izinhlobo Ezi-3 Eziyinhloko Ze-Empaths?
Nakuba wonke uzwela luphila isipiliyoni esihlukile, incwadi ka-Orloff ikhomba izinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko, futhi izichaza kanjalo.
1. I-Physical Empath
Ujwayelene kakhulu nezimpawu zomzimba zabanye abantu futhi uvame ukuzifaka emzimbeni wakho. Ungase futhi unikezwe amandla nomuzwa wenhlalakahle yomuntu. Isibonelo, uma umngane wozwela lomzimba ekhononda ngezinhlungu ezibukhali zesisu, ukuzwela komzimba kungase kuqale ukuzwa ubuhlungu obufanayo emzimbeni wabo.
2. Uzwela Lwemizwelo
Ngokuyinhloko uthatha imizwa yabanye abantu futhi ungaba isipontshi semizwa yabo, kokubili okujabulisayo nokudabukisayo. U-Orloff unikeza lesi sibonelo ngalokho okushiwo ukuzwela ngokomzwelo: 'Bangahlala eduze komuntu ocindezelekile kuyilapho bebukele umdlalo wamahlaya futhi baphume endaweni yeshashalazi bezizwa bedangele. Kanjani? Inkambu yamandla yomunye umuntu idlula inkambu ye-empath ngesikhathi sefilimu.'
3. I-Empath Enembile
Uhlangabezana nemibono engavamile efana nokuthola ulwazi oluphakeme, i-telepathy, imilayezo emaphusheni, ukuxhumana kwezilwane nezitshalo, kanye nokuxhumana nolunye uhlangothi. Ukuzwelana okuqondakalayo kungahlukaniswa ngokuqhubekayo kube yilezi zinhlobo eziyisikhombisa (okuholela ekutheni lokhu kuguqukela kakhulu kokomoya kunesayensi):
Noma yikuphi kwalokhu okungenhla okuzwakala njengokujwayelekile? Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungaba nozwela, bheka lezi zimpawu eziyi-11 ezivamile , bese uthatha incwadi ka-Orloff ukuze ufunde indlela engcono kakhulu yokusebenzisa amandla alesi sici.
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