Samangala kakhulu lapho sizwa lokho, ngokocwaningo olwenziwe Ucingo Lomshado , amaphesenti angama-63 ezinkulungwane zeminyaka abike ngokufanelekile ecela imvume ngaphambi kokuhlongoza. Hawu. Sasingazi ukuthi isiko lasesikoleni esidala lisewumgogodla. Njengoba sasinelukuluku kunangaphambili, sinqume ukwenza inhlolovo yenethiwekhi yethu futhi sathola izibalo ziyiqiniso elimangalisayo...kodwa ngama-twist athakazelisayo. Nakhu esikufundile emibhangqwaneni eyi-16 yangempela, yesimanje.
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Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliBAKHALA AMAKHANDA KUNOKUTHI BABUZE
Umyeni wami akazange ngempela ayicele imvume, kodwa wayefuna ukuhlala phansi nobaba ukuze sihlanganyele injabulo yakhe nendlela ayengithanda ngayo, futhi amtshele ukuthi wayefuna ukunginakekela ukuphila kwethu konke! - Becky G.
Ngisanda kuthembisana umshado ngo-Okthoba futhi isoka lami lakhuluma nabazali bami bobabili kodwa kwakungeyona into yemvume. Kwakungaphezu kwakhe ukubazisa ukuthi uzocela umshado. Kubonakale kungavamile futhi njengezindaba ezinhle kunokufuna imvume! - Deepanjali B.
Umyeni wami washayela ubaba ucingo wabuza, ‘Kungalunga uma ngingakubiza ngokuthi baba, ngokusemthethweni?’ Ngathanda ukuthi abazali bami babesazi futhi babonisana naye (ngokumangala), kodwa futhi ngabona ukuthi akazange acele imvume yabo njenge Bengilokhu ngathola ukuthi lowo mqondo ungowosuku futhi uyinqaba. - U-Alisa B.
Isoka lami lakwenza. Hhayi kakhulu ngoba wayenomuzwa wokuthi udinga ‘ukucela imvume,’ kodwa ngoba wayefuna ukusungula ubuhlobo obuningi bomuntu oyedwa nobaba. Babengakaze bakhulume ocingweni ngaphambili—wayengenayo ngisho nenombolo yocingo kababa—ngakho wacabanga ukuthi kwakuyisikhathi esihle sokuqala ukuqinisa leso sibopho uma sizoba umkhaya owodwa omkhulu. Kubenze basondelana impela. - Lindsay C.
'Watshela, kunokuba abuze, ubaba wami. Bekumayelana nokwabelana ngenjabulo kunokucela imvume.'- Elizebeth P.
I-Yagi-Studio / PureWowBabuza Umndeni Wonke, Hhayi Ubaba Kuphela
Isoka lami labuza umndeni wami wonke ngosuku lukaKhisimusi ngonyaka odlule. Ubaba, umama, abafowethu ababili nodadewethu. Siwumndeni osondelene ngakho wacabanga ukuthi kufanele abuze wonke umuntu. Ubaba wathinteka kakhulu ngokuthi wayehlanganisa neqembu lezigelekeqe. Ngangingazi futhi wonke umuntu wayazi izinsuku ezimbili ngaphambi kokuba angibuze! - Emma G.
Umyeni wami wababuza bobabili abazali bami esidlweni sakusihlwa. Wayefuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi umama ufakiwe futhi wayengabuzi nje ubaba. Kwakusho lukhulu kuye. Umyeni kadadewethu owayezoshada naye wenza okufanayo. - U-Erin B.
Isoka lami layicela imvume—kubazali bami. Kwakuyindaba ehlekisayo: wahamba sonke isidlo sakusihlwa exoxa nabo futhi wakhohlwa ukubuza kwaze kwaba sekupheleni. Akugcinanga lapho, kodwa njengoba sihlanganyela ikhalenda, ngangazi ukuthi yilapho ‘isidlo sakusihlwa’ sakhe samabhizinisi. Wabuza abazali bami bobabili ngoba ebona sengathi bubalulekile ubuhlobo babo nobudlelwano bakhe bekusasa njengomkhwenyana wabo. - UMarguerite B.
Ngandlela thize umkhwenyana wami wathola imizuzwana nje yokudlula akhulume nobaba, ephethe indandatho. Umama wangena kubo futhi waqaphela ukuthi kwenzekani wayesethi, 'awu, kungani ungangibuzi?!' Bavele bahleke bonke. Kamuva ngemva kokuthembisana umshado ubaba wangigcona ngokuthi usezame ukungifaka iringi phambi kwami! - UMaeve K.
Amashumi amabili namashumi amabiliEminye Imibhangqwana Yesimanje Ingaphezu KweSiko Ngokuphelele
Umyeni wami akazange acele imvume. Uma ebuzwa, angasho ukuthi isiko liyangqubuzana nezindinganiso zakhe zobulili besifazane. Siyavuma ukuthi ngiyakwazi ukuzenzela izinqumo. Ubaba uthe ubengathukile ukube uPete ebecelile, nokuthi uMama wami (owesifazane ozimele onamandla anguye) ubezoba yisinqumo esifanele kakhulu. -Laura D.
UMax akababuzanga abazali bami ngoba wathi uyazi ukuthi bazothi ‘buza yena’; okwagcina kufana ncamashi nabakusho ngemuva kweqiniso ngesikhathi sikhuluma ngakho. Bazizwa sengathi akufanele ngempela babe yingxenye ye-equation ngaphandle kokuba yingxenye yomkhosi! - UMolly S.
Isoka lami alizange libuze abazali bami ngoba lalifuna ukuvele likhulume ngakho. Ngamtshela ukuthi yebo, futhi ngacabanga ukuthi kwakumnandi futhi kunothando kakhulu, kodwa ukuthi umshado wethu wawungeke ube ngokusemthethweni aze athole isibusiso sabo. - UGrace C.
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'Isoka lami lacela imvume kubaba ngaphambi kokungiqomisa, engangicabanga ukuthi muhle impela ngoba akuyona into esake saxoxa ngayo ngaphambili. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuyindlela enhle yokunikeza umndeni wakho amakhanda. Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi ngokuyinhloko wayekubheka njengento ebonisa inhlonipho futhi wayefuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi wayethola isibusiso sikababa.' - UMel M.
'Isoka lami livakashele abazali bami labatshela ukuthi kungani lifuna ukungishada, lithembise ukuthi lizokwenzani, lacela imvume kubo. Yabonisa inhlonipho enkulu futhi yasho lukhulu kithina sonke!' -Devan K.
'Umyeni wami wabuza abazali bami ngoba wakhulela ekhaya lendabuko futhi wayefuna imvume/inhlonipho yabo. Abazali bami bangabantu bendabuko futhi.' - Liza W.
'Isoka lami labuza abazali bami, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi bashaqekile ngokuthi nginomuntu owayezongibuza! Kodwa empeleni ngacabanga ukuthi ngimnandi. Futhi kwakusho lukhulu kubo. Ngibona sengathi kusasiza ebudlelwaneni bakhe nabo.' - Karyn S.
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