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Akukhathalekile ukuthi isoka lakho likulahlile noma wena ulilahlile. Konke okubalulekile ukumenza azizwe kabi ukuthi ukude nawe. Usunemicabango emibili mayelana nokuhlukana. Ungaguqula amatafula uma ufuna? Umbuzo uthi, 'Ngabe ufuna ukwenza owedlule ukuba akuphuthele kabi kakhulu?'
Kulula ukukhohlisa izingqondo zabantu kuphela uma wazi izindlela. Mhlawumbe ufuna i-ex yakho ibuyele empilweni yakho noma unemicabango yokubuyelana. Mhlawumbe manje usuyabona ukuthi indima obuyidlala ebudlelwaneni bakho ibinganele futhi ufuna okuningi ngayo.
Akulula njengokuthatha ifoni yakho uchithele isibindi sakho kuye umtshele nezizathu zokulangazelela ukuba khona kwakhe empilweni yakho. Ukukhuluma iqiniso, lokho mhlawumbe kuyinto embi kunazo zonke ongayenza uma ufuna ngempela i-ex yakho emuva empilweni yakho ngendlela ababeyiyo.
Kudingeka uhlelo lomdlalo oluncane futhi usethwe ukuthi uqhubekele phambili umenze abuyele noma aze amenze akuphuthe noma ngabe ukude kakhulu.
Uma kukhulunywa ngokwakha kabusha ezothando ne-ex yakho, kufanele umenze akukhumbule kakhulu kunothando ayenalo ngawe. Kufanele wenze izimo ezinjengokuthi aqale ukuphupha ngawe nengoma ngayinye ayilalelayo ukuze imkhumbuze wena nezinkumbulo ezihambisana nobabili.
Ukuze umenze akukhumbule kabi, udinga ukucabanga ngawe ngaso sonke isikhathi, ezibuza ukuthi wenzani lowo mzuzu othile. Lokhu kumenza akulangazelele ngokuqhubekayo.
Ake sibone izindlela ongamenza ngazo ukuthi akukhumbule kabi. Kunezindlela ezithile ezifakazelwe ezingakusiza ekuhlanganiseni ukunaka kwakhe futhi zimenze azizwe kabi ngokungabi nawe.
Ngabe Ufuna i-Ex yakho ikukhumbule kabi?
1. Phonsa Okudala Ngaphandle Kwewindi
Udinga ukuletha ushintsho olukhulu empilweni yakho. Lokhu kuhilela ukuthuthela endlini entsha noma ukuthuthela kwelinye idolobha noma ukufaka enye entsha esikhundleni semoto yakho endala.
Ngokwenza lokhu wenza kucace kumuntu wakho wakudala ukuthi aqonde ukuthi uqhubekele phambili. Lokhu kuzomenza afune ukubuyela kuwe futhi yilokho okufunayo, akunjalo?
Wonke umuntu ufuna umuntu othatha izinyathelo ngendlela efanele empilweni. Ukwenza ushintsho olukhulu empilweni yakho kuzokhombisa owedlule ukuthi ubukade ukhwela ezitebhisini ukuze uguquke futhi lokho kuzomenza afune ukuguquka nawe.
2. Khombisa Ukuthi Impilo Yakho Isibe Nhle Kanjani
Ukuveza impilo yakho ukuthi yenzeke ngokwengeziwe futhi ibe yinhle kwenza umuntu wakudala azizwe enosizi ngokushiya kwakho.
Uyazisola ngeqiniso lokuthi wena naye sahlukana. Uzwa ukuthi kufanele kube nelinye ithuba lokuvuselela ubudlelwano enaninabo nobabili.
Uma usakhulumisana nowakudala, mtshele ngokuthi impilo isimangalise kanjani emva kokuhlukana nokuthi ukwazisa kanjani konke okukulo.
3. Hlanganani Nenze Abangane
Ngemuva kokuhlukana, udinga ukuba nomphakathi ngokwengeziwe futhi lokhu kufaka ukuxhumana nabantu abasha nokwenza oxhumana nabo abasha bomphakathi. Lokhu kuzokwenza ube nokuxhumana okwengeziwe futhi kuzokulethela neqembu labangane abasha nabantu ozohlanganyela nabo. Ngithembe ukuthi uyayidinga. Lokhu kuzokwenza i-ex yakho ibone ukuthi usuphumile endaweni yakho yokunethezeka futhi usuqale ukuzihlanganisa nabantu abaningi. Vele, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubambelela ohlelweni lokuqina oluqinile osunalo futhi ugcine labo bangane osubenzile kuze kube yimanje, kepha ukwandisa umjikelezo wakho wezenhlalo nokwengeza abangane abasha abambalwa ngeke kulimaze nakanjani.
Ngokwandisa umbuthano wakho, uzogcwalisa impilo yakho yezenhlalo ngemicimbi nezinto okufanele uzenze ukuze uzigcine umatasa futhi ungagcini ingqondo yakho kowayengumlingani wakho. Lokhu kwenza i-ex yakho icabange ukuthi uma ingasebenzi kuwe futhi nibuyelane, omunye umuntu omusha ekugcineni uzothatha ingubo yothando kuwe futhi uzovele ashe, akubone.
4. Shintshanisa Izindwangu
Lokhu kusebenza njengoba kuhlale kunesikhathi sakudala lapho abantu baqala ukuthandana futhi bathandana. Ukuze wenze i-ex yakho iphatheke kabi ngokungabi naye, udinga ukuvuselela futhi uthenge izingubo ezintsha. Gcwalisa ikhabethe ngokulingana okuhamba phambili futhi uvame ukuwagqoka.
Lapho i-ex yakho ikubona wena noma isithombe sakho, ushaywa ngumoya ngokuguqulwa kwendlela obukade unje ngayo manje. Lokhu kuzomudla kumqede ngaphakathi bese eqala ukukukhumbula futhi. Ukubukeka komzimba kudlala lukhulu futhi uma ukwenza kube yinqaba yakho, ama-ex wakho akhala ngawe ukuthi ubuye naye.
Lezi ngezinye zezindlela ezifakazelwe lapho uzokwenza khona owake wakukhumbula akukhumbule kabi futhi akufune ubuyele empilweni yakhe. Ukuphela kokufanele ukwenze umbukiso wokuziqhenya wobukhazikhazi, isimo sakho sengqondo asisenandaba, nokuthi usudlulele phambili. Lokhu kwanele ukuheha owedlule ukuba abuye nawe. Ucingo lwakho ekugcineni.
Kepha ukuze wenze umuntu wakudala akufisele, vele ulandele lezi zinyathelo bese ubona imiphumela efakazelwe.
Ngibhalele ngemicabango yakho efakwe ngaphakathi kwengqondo yakho futhi ngikusize ngokubeka izindatshana ngokufanayo. Uma ukuthandile ukufunda le ndatshana, nikeza impendulo yakho ngezansi esigabeni sokuphawula.
Halala!
