Wazifunda zonke izincwadi zezingane, wenza ama-kegels akho ngokwenkolo futhi wabukela indlela iziqeshana eziningi kakhulu ze-YouTube mayelana nomsebenzi nokulethwa (ake sibe ngokoqobo—ngisho nevidiyo eyodwa maningi kakhulu). Kodwa akukho lutho olungakulungiselela ngempela ukuba umzali—ikakhulukazi, ukuntuleka kokulala. Ukube bekunomuntu obekwazi ukukubhekelela lokho okuphakelayo kwaphakathi nobusuku aphinde akukhombise izintambo uma kuziwa ekuziqeqesheni kokulala. O, kodwa kukhona. Nakhu okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nabahlengikazi basebusuku.
Bayini? Abahlengikazi basebusuku, ababuye babizwe ngokuthi abazanyana basebusuku, bangabahlinzeki bokunakekela izingane abanakekela usana lwakho ebusuku kuyilapho wena, mzali okhathele, ongakwazi ukulala, ubamba iso elivalekile elidingeka kakhulu. Uyibonile ifilimu ka-Charlize Theron UThuli? Yilokho.
Kuzwakala kumangalisa. Ngitshele okwengeziwe. Abahlengikazi basebusuku bangaqashwa amasonto ambalwa (noma ngaphezulu) ngemva kokuzalwa. Abanye abazali bayawaqasha njalo ebusuku kanti abanye bawasebenzisa ngezikhathi ezithile. Futhi nakuba izinsizakalo eziqondile zihluka, ngokuvamile, umhlengikazi wasebusuku uzofika kusihlwa ukuze akusize ulalise usana lwakho bese ulunakekela ubusuku bonke (ukushintsha inabukeni, ukuswayipha, ukupholisa, njll.). Baningi nabahlengikazi basebusuku ochwepheshe bokunakekela abasanda kuzalwa abaqinisekisiwe , ongakusiza ukukufundisa ngokugeza, ukuqeqeshwa kokulala, ukudala isimiso sokudla okunempilo nokunye. (Nakuba kufaneleka ukwazi ukuthi naphezu kwegama, abahlengikazi basebusuku abangochwepheshe abangezona ezezokwelapha.) Bese behamba ekuseni futhi bakwenze konke futhi ngobusuku obulandelayo. Yebo, ziyinguqulo yasebusuku kaMary Poppins.
Kodwa kuthiwani ngokuncelisa? Imininingwane izoba kuwena, kodwa uma uncelisa ibele, abahlengikazi basebusuku bazoncelisa ibhodlela lokho obukupompe ngaphambili noma bavuse umama ebuthongweni bakhe ukuze akwazi ukuncelisa.
Futhi kubiza malini? Njengoba ungase ucabange, lezi zingelosi ezithunyelwe zivela ezulwini azishibhile. Nakuba izintengo zihluka ngomzanyana ngamunye noma nge-ejensi, izindleko ezijwayelekile ngobusuku ngabunye (imvamisa ishifu yamahora angu-12) ngu-0 kuya ku-0. Yebo. Kodwa hey, kwabanye abazali (ikakhulukazi labo abaye basebenza kanzima noma omama abaningi), lokho kuyinani elincane lokukhokhela ithuba lokuvala amehlo.
Nginentshisekelo. Ngiyithola kanjani? Khuluma nabangani kanye nosebenza nabo ukuze uthole izincomo zomuntu siqu, cela iqembu lakho labazali ku-inthanethi noma cela usizo lwe-ejensi. Qiniseka ukuthi uhlangana nabahlengikazi abambalwa abahlukene, qiniseka ngalokho okulindele futhi uhlole izinkomba zabo ( i-International Nanny Association iwumthombo omuhle wanoma yimiphi imibuzo ongase ube nayo). Lala kamnandi.
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