I-Am I the A**hole subreddit iyindawo abantu abangabelana ngayo ngokukhululekile ngezimo ukuze bahlulelwe ngokuzithandela abanye abangabazi ukuze babone ukuthi ngabe ngempela babenephutha.
Olunye uhlangothi lwephosta, abanye abakwazi ukunquma ukuthi yini elungile noma engalungile futhi abanye, njengakulesi simo, bamshabalalisa ngokuphelele umuntu ngenxa yokuba nonya.
A ubaba muva nje okuthunyelwe esithangamini , hhayi ngoba ekhathazekile ukuthi wenze ngokweqile, kodwa ngoba umkakhe wayengavumelani naye. Umkhwe wakhe wayeshonile futhi wayenobuhlobo obuseduze nendodana yalo mbhangqwana eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala.
Ezinsukwini ezandulela umngcwabo, indodana yami kusobala ukuthi yayiphatheke kabi ngokudlula kukayisemkhulu, kodwa nokho sambuza ukuthi uyafuna yini ukuya emngcwabeni wathi yebo, kusho umbiko.
Ngosuku lomngcwabo, ngisasiqhuba, omunye wethu wathi yibhokisi elivuliwe, ubaba waqhubeka. Indodana yami yathuka yavele yathuka ingafuni ukuhamba njengoba yayingafuni ukubona isidumbu.
Lokhu akukona ukusabela okungavamile, uma kubhekwa ukuthi indodana ifunda ibanga lesibili noma lesithathu kuphela futhi yayinobudlelwane obuseduze nomkhulu wayo. Ababephawula kulo mbhalo bazwelane nesenzo somfanyana, abanye bethi base bebadala kakhulu ngesikhathi beya emngcwabeni wabo wokuqala ovulekile webhokisi futhi bebengazilungiseleli nhlobo ngokomzwelo.
Ngineminyaka engu-22 futhi bengingakulungele ngokomzwelo ukubona i-grampa yami ebhokisini elivuliwe lapho edlula ngoSepthemba odlule, i-Redditer eyodwa. ubeke amazwana . Ngokunengqondo ngangazi kahle ukuthi yini okufanele ngiyilindele. Ingane eneminyaka engu-8 ayinawo ngempela amandla okuqonda ngokomzwelo noma okunengqondo okwenzekayo, ikakhulukazi uma kuwumngcwabo wayo wokuqala.
Ngenkathi umama ezama ukumehlisa umoya, ubaba wahamba ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele.
Ngemva kokukhala kwakhe njalo ngacasuka ngatshaya amakhefu ngajikisa imota ukuze ngimehlise. Bengimthethisa ngokushintsha umqondo indlela yonke emuva ehlezi enza isenzo sakhe sokukhala, waqhubeka.
Lokhu kwakusho ukuthi lo mbhangqwana uphuthelwe izinkulumo eziningi zomngcwabo, futhi inkosikazi yomfanekiso yayiphatheke kabi ngendlela eqondakalayo. Lapho lo mbhangqwana ubuyela endlini ngemva komngcwabo, ubaba wathi ujezise indodana yakhe amasonto amathathu - akukho TV noma imidlalo yevidiyo, umsebenzi wesikole nje.
Umka- poster akavumelananga nesijeziso, kodwa ubaba waphikelela ngokuthi indodana yakhe kwakufanele yazi kangcono kunokuba iguqule isinqumo sayo sokuya emngcwabeni ngesikhathi besendleleni.
Ngokujwayelekile ngeke ngibe nokhahlo kodwa njengoba umkami esesimweni esibucayi futhi ephuthelwe umngcwabo omningi, empeleni ngisola indodana yami ngo-100% ngakho konke lokhu, kuphetha okuthunyelwe.
I-Reddit ayizange ihlabeke umxhwele.
Njengomzali wehlulekile ukumlungiselela ngokumtshela okumele akulindele kuze kube usemotweni uya enkonzweni, umuntu oyedwa. wabhala .
Umphuca konke akujabulelayo ngesikhathi ekudinga kakhulu, omunye ophawulayo kuphendula . Konke njengokujeziswa kwakhe ukuthi akakulungele ukubona isidumbu sikamkhulu wakhe (imininingwane ohlulekile ukuyisho kuye uze usendleleni eya khona).
Uthukuthelele ingane ngokungalawuli imizwa yayo esimweni ongayihlomiselanga ukubhekana naso ngenkathi ungakayiphathi ngisho imizwa yakho lapha, omunye umuntu. wachaza .
Ngethemba ukuthi ingxoxo yakhuluma ngomqondo othile kubaba futhi waqiniseka ukuba nenkulumo efanele, ezwelayo nendodana yakhe encane futhi asuse isijeziso.
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