Ukwenqatshwa kubuhlungu, kodwa akunakugwenywa. Ngesinye isikhathi empilweni yomuntu, kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu angadlula ebuhlungwini obucishe bubekezeleleke bokuphuka kwenhliziyo. Kodwa lokho kulungile, ubuhlungu bulungile, ungabhekana nabo. Nakuba uzizwa wesabekayo njengamanje, yazi ukuthi ubuhlungu buzophela ekugcineni. Futhi ngokuphazima kweso, uzobuyela ekukhanyeni kwelanga okujabulisayo komuntu owawunguye ngaphambi kokuba ‘lowo muntu’ aphule inhliziyo yakho. Okwamanje, nazi izindlela eziyi-10 ongabhekana nazo nobuhlungu bothando olungafanele.
Zinike isikhathi sokudabuka
Njenge-cheesy ne-romcom-like njengoba kuzwakala, udinga ukuzivumela ukuba udabuke; phela ukwaliwa kubuhlungu! Ucwaningo luthole ukuthi ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo busebenza ingxenye yobuchopho njengobuhlungu bomzimba. Yingakho ‘inhliziyo ephukile’ empeleni ibuhlungu. Ungazithwali kanzima ngokuthanda umuntu, zinike isikhathi sokucasuka nokudabuka; nje ungaginqiki kakhulu.
Khuluma nawe kumuntu wesithathu
Cha, asikhohlisi. Leli qhinga liyasebenza ngempela ngoba ukukhuluma wedwa kumuntu wesithathu kukusiza ukuthi ulawule imizwa yakho ngendlela engcono. Le nqubo ikuvumela ukuthi uhlole isimo ngombono ohlosiwe. Ngakho, yebo, thola ukuxoxa ngawe.
Gwema inkohliso
Mhlawumbe ubulokhu uzibuza (futhi unethemba) ukuthi ngolunye usuku, ngelinye ilanga izinto zingase zilunge phakathi kwenu nobabili. Ithemba ngokuvamile liwumuzwa omkhulu, kodwa ngokuqinisekile alikho kulezi zimo. Ukuhlala embonweni wokuthi ngelinye ilanga i-crush yakho izokuthanda ngendlela othanda ngayo kuyokwenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. Gwema lezi zinkohliso ngazo zonke izindleko futhi uzobe usendleleni yokuqhubekela phambili.
Dala isikhala
Asisho ukuthi kufanele unqamule bonke ubuhlobo naye futhi uyeke ukuhlala naye ngokuphelele, kodwa kufanele uzame ukudala isikhala phakathi kwakho nawe. Uma usengabangane naye, zama ukumshayela ucingo noma ukuthumela imiyalezo kancane; akakufonele kube kanye. Ezikhathini lapho inhliziyo yakho ilulama, isikhala sisiza inqubo.
Zinike isikhathi sokuzilibazisa
Esikhundleni sokuphupha nje ukuthi umangalisa kangakanani, ziphazamise ngento oyithandayo oyithandayo. Ukuphupha emini okungenangqondo kuwukumosha ngokuphelele isikhathi sakho futhi esikhundleni salokho udlulisela amandla akho ekwenzeni okuthile okukhiqizayo. Khetha okuthile okuvusa ilukuluku lakho noma umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa obulokhu ufuna ukuwuzama.
Zithokozise
Ukuzithanda akubukelwa phansi kakhulu! Futhi lapho wehla futhi uphuma futhi uzwa inzondo enkulu othandweni nakho konke okuhlotshaniswa nalo, yima khona lapho. Uthando luyinto enhle futhi ukuzithanda kuhle kakhulu. Bhuka i-aphoyintimenti nesaluni yakho futhi uhambe isikhathi esiphelele sokutotoswa. Noma vele uthole usawoti owuthandayo wokugeza namafutha abalulekile bese uletha i-spa ekhaya lakho. Yazi ukuthi ubalulekile!
Yenza uhlu lobuhle nobubi
Njengoba kuzwakala kuwubuwula, kuyasiza ngempela! Yenza uhlu lokuhle nokubi mayelana nokungashadi. Kuzokusiza uthole umbono. Uhlangothi lwe-cons lungaba lude kunobuhle kodwa lokho kulungile ngokuphelele. Ekugcineni uzoqala ukubona uhlangothi olukhanyayo lwezinto. Futhi khumbula ukugxila ohlangothini lochwepheshe, ukuba nethemba kuyasiza njalo.
Hamba ngedethi
Kungase kuzwakale kuphoqelekile noma kungakhiqizi kahle, kodwa kungcono kunokuhlala wedwa ekhaya nokuzulazula. Akudingeki ukuthi kube usuku olubucayi kakhulu, lugcine lukhululekile. Cela umngane noma osebenza naye ukuthi aphuze ikhofi noma uzame indawo yokudlela entsha. Uma uzimisele, landa uhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana bese ucela 'okufanayo' kwakho ngedethi yekhofi!
Ithi cha kuma-romcoms
Sicela unganqotshwa injabulo yokubuka ama-romcom nokudla u-ayisikhilimu ngemva kobuhlungu benhliziyo. Kuzokwenza ukuthi uginqike kungenasidingo futhi ugcizelele into eyodwa ongeke ube nayo - uthando. Kunalokho gxila kumamuvi nezincwadi okungezona ezothando, khetha olunye uhlobo, njengamahlaya, athokozisayo noma amadrama. Kuzokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nobuhlungu kangcono.
Ungafuni ukuvala
Okokugcina, vele wamukele isimo ukuthi siyini futhi ungajahi ukuthola ukuvala ukuze wenze izinto zibonakale 'zingcono'. Ukufuna ukuvalwa lapho empeleni kungekho, ngeke kusize icala lakho. Vele udedele, vuma ukunqotshwa, khuphula amasokisi akho futhi wamukele ikusasa. Khumbula ukuthi kunenqwaba yezinhlanzi olwandle.
