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Ukuzethemba kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokukhula kwengane enempilo. Kuyasiza izingane ukubhekana namaphutha, zama futhi noma zifeyila ngokokuqala ngqa, okuzenza zibone futhi zazise amakhono namandla azo. Ukuzethemba kusiza izingane ukubhekana nezingqinamba, ingcindezi yontanga nezinye izinselelo ezibhekana nazo empilweni yazo [1] .
Izingane ezinomuzwa ophilile wokuzethemba zizizwa zinhle ngathi futhi izingane ezingenakho ukuzethemba zizizwa zingaqiniseki ngazo. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi izingane ezinokuzethemba okuphansi zinengozi enkulu yokuhlushwa ukukhathazeka nokudangala [okubili] , [3] .
Lapho izingane zizethemba ngokwazo, zizizwa ziziqhenya ngalokho ezikwenzayo, zizizwa zinethemba futhi ziyazikholelwa. Yonke ingane yehlukile futhi ngenkathi ezinye izingane zakha ukuzethemba kalula ezinye zidinga usizo oluncane oluvela kubazali bazo ukwakha ukuzethemba kwazo.
Nawa amanye amathiphu okuthi abazali bangakhulisa kanjani ukuzethemba kwengane yabo ukuze ingane ikwazi ukubhekana nezinselelo ezibhekene nazo.
1. Khuluma kahle
Ukwehluleka kungaletha imizwa engemihle engadala ingane ukuthi ikungabaze ukuzethemba kwabo futhi lokhu kunganciphisa ukuzethemba kwabo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bafundise ukwamukela ingane yabo nokubenza baqonde ukuthi ukwehluleka kuyingxenye yempilo nokuthi bangasebenzisa lolu lwazi ukuze bafunde futhi bakhule futhi benze kangcono ngokuzayo. Abazali kufanele bafundise izingane zabo ukuqinisekiswa okuhle ngoba kungasiza ekushintsheni imicabango yabo [4] .
2. Khombisa uthando olungenamibandela
Ukuzethemba kuvela ekuzizweni uthandwa futhi uvikelekile. Ukubonisa uthando olungenamibandela enganeni yakho kuzoyinika umuzwa wemfudumalo, ukuphepha nokuba yingxenye yabangane okuzobenza bazizwe kahle ngabo. Thanda ingane yakho naphezu kokuthi yenza amaphutha noma izinqumo ezimbi futhi ugweme ukuyigxeka [5] .
3. Yiba yisibonelo esihle
Izingane zihlala ziqaphela indlela abazali bazo abaphila ngayo izimpilo zabo nokuthi babhekana kanjani nokwehluleka futhi bathole impumelelo. Lapho abazali benza imisebenzi yabo ngokuzethemba okukhulu futhi beziqhenya ngomsebenzi abawenze kahle, izingane ziyawubona futhi lokhu kuzifundisa ukwenza okufanayo nazo [6] .
4. Ncoma imizamo yabo
Ncoma imizamo yengane yakho, inqubekela phambili nesimo sayo sengqondo kunoma yini eyenzayo, kunokugxila ekudumiseni kuphela umphumela omuhle. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ifunda insimbi yomculo entsha noma isebenza kuphrojekthi ethile, yazise. Ncoma izingane zakho ngokufaka umzamo ezintweni ngoba lokhu kuzozinika isikhuthazo futhi kusize ukwakha ukuzethemba kwazo [7] .
5. Bakhuthaze ukuthi bafunde izinto ezintsha
Abazali kufanele bakhuthaze izingane zabo ukuthi ziphishekele izinto ezintsha kungaba ukujoyina isigaba sokudansa noma ukuba yingxenye yeqembu lebhola esikoleni. Batshele ukuthi banesibindi ekuzameni izinto ezintsha nokuthi bangaphumelela kukho. Lokhu kuzosiza ekwakheni ukuzethemba kwengane yakho ekufundeni izinto ezintsha.
6. Ungaqhathanisi izingane zakho nabanye
Gwema ukuqhathanisa izingane zakho nontanga yabo ngoba lokhu kuzokhuphula izinga labo lokucindezeleka. Izingane zifuna ukujabulisa abazali bazo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi lapho zingakwazi ukwenza kanjalo, lokhu kunganciphisa ukuzethemba kwengane yakho futhi kuqale ukukholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu ungcono kunabo.
7. Musa ukugxeka ukusebenza kwabo
Ukugxeka imizamo yengane yakho kuzodikibala ekuyizameni futhi. Nikeza iziphakamiso bese ubakhuthaza ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani kangcono ngokuzayo. Lapho izingane zigxekwa ngamaphutha azo, kulimaza ukuzethemba kwazo. Futhi uma ingane yakho isaba ukwehluleka ngoba ikhathazeka ukuthi uzothukuthela, lokhu kungayivimbela ekuzameni futhi. Ngakho gwema ukugxeka okunzima futhi ukhulume nengane yakho ngendlela emnandi [8] .
8. Nikeza ingane yakho umthwalo wemfanelo
Nikeza ingane yakho imithwalo yemfanelo ethile, efanele iminyaka yayo, isibonelo, yinikeze imisebenzi ethile yasekhaya ngoba izonikeza umuzwa wokufeza okuthile. Bonga futhi uncome imizamo yabo emisebenzini eyenziwa kahle futhi ubatshele ukuthi bazoba ngcono usuku ngalunye oludlulayo. Lokhu kungasiza kakhulu ekwakheni ukuzethemba nokuqina.
9. Naka amandla abo
Naka lokho izingane zakho ezikuthokozelayo ukukwenza futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ziyakwazi ukukwenza. Gxila emandleni abo lapho bethanda ukwenza okuthile ngoba lokhu kuzobenza bazizwe kahle ngabo futhi bazethembe ngokwabo nangamakhono abo.
10. Vumela ingane yakho yehluleke
Kungokwemvelo ukuthi abazali bafuna ukuvikela ingane yabo ekwehlulekeni, kepha ukuhamba ngezilingo namaphutha kuzosiza izingane zakho ukuba zifunde futhi zikhule. Uma izingane zehluleke kokunye, zikhuthaze ukuthi zinikeze umzamo omkhulu ngokuzayo. Bafundise ukwenza konke ukubuyela emuva ithuba lokukhula nokwenza ngcono.
11. Zibekele imigomo
Ukubeka nokufeza izinhloso ezingokoqobo, noma ngabe zincane noma zinkulu zingabenza bazizwe beqinile futhi bekwazi ukusebenza. Abazali kufanele basize izingane zabo ziguqule amaphupho abo zibe imigomo ngokubakhuthaza ukuthi babhale phansi izinto abangathanda ukuzenza futhi babasize bafunde amakhono abawadingayo ukuze bakwazi ukufeza izinhloso zabo.
Imibuzo evame ukubuzwa
U. Yini ebangela ukuzenyeza enganeni?
TO. Ukungathokozi ngesikhathi sobuntwana ngenxa yokugxekwa kanzima ngabazali noma ngothisha, ukungenzi kahle ezifundweni kanye nemicimbi yempilo ecindezelayo ngezinye zezimbangela zokuzenyeza ezinganeni.
U. Ziyini izimpawu zokuzenyeza enganeni?
TO. Ukuba nesithombe esingesihle ngabo, ukungazethembi, ukuzwa isizungu nokuhlukaniswa nabanye nokugwema ukuzama izinto ezintsha ngezinye zezimpawu zokuzenyeza.
U. Ngingayenza kanjani ingane yami ibe nethemba ngokwengeziwe?
TO. Khuthaza ingane yakho futhi uqaphele okufezile, yiba yisibonelo, vumela izingane zakho ukuba zizungezwe ngabantu abahle futhi bazifundise isimilo nokuziphatha.
