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Ngabe uyazibuza ukuthi umuntu wakho nguyena okungafanele umyeke yini? Ngabe uvame ukucabanga ukuthi ngabe wenzelwe ukuthi abe uhhafu wakho ongcono? Yebo-ke, siqinisekile ukuthi ubheke phambili ekuqiniseni ubudlelwano bakho nokububeka kwelinye izinga. Kodwa-ke, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ozalwa emkhulu. Kepha kunezici ezithile ezenza umuntu akhetheke futhi abe yigugu.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi ngabe unguye yini, bese upheqa phansi i-athikili ukuze ufunde kabanzi.
1. Wenza Umzamo Wokuba Nawe
Umfana ohlala ezinzwaneni zakhe zokuchitha isikhathi nawe ngokungangabazeki ungumuntu okhethekile. Uzobona ukuthi uvame ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuhlela okuthile ukuze nobabili nibe nesikhathi ndawonye. Isibonelo, angakucela ukuthi uhlangane naye ukuphuza ikhofi noma eze ezokulanda lapho usebenza khona. Ngisho noma ematasa kakhulu, uzoqinisekisa ukuthi okungenani akushayele noma akuthumele umqhafazo. Kuyena, ukuchitha isikhathi nawe kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba nendoda enjalo empilweni yakho akuyona into engaphansi kwesibusiso.
2.Uhlala Ekusekela
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi nguyena yini okungafanele umyeke, zibuze ukuthi ngabe uyawathanda yini amaphupho akho? Ingabe uyakusekela futhi akushukumisele ekufezeni izinhloso zakho? Indoda eyiqiniso iyohlale ifisela impumelelo yakho futhi ikholelwe kuwe. Uzokukhuthaza ukuthi uvele njengomuntu onothando futhi osebenza kanzima. Ngisho nangezikhathi ezinzima, akasoze ayeka ukukholelwa emandleni akho.
3. Uyayazi Indlela Yokugcina I-Spark Iphila
Yini engaba yinto engcono ukwedlula ukuba nendoda eyaziyo ukugcina inhlansi iphila ebudlelwaneni bakho? Le ndoda izohlala iza nemibono emisha nejabulisayo ukugcina ubudlelwano buphila. Ukwenza isibonelo, angahamba nawe ohambweni olungazelelwe, akucele ukuba nihambe lapho nihamba, nihlele isidlo sakusihlwa samakhandlela, njll. Uzozinikela ekuthandeni njenganoma yini. Ngezinye izikhathi, uyomangala ukubona indlela akunakekela kahle ngayo.
4. Uba Nesithakazelo Ezintweni Ozithandayo
Ukuba nomuntu onentshisekelo yokuzijabulisa ezintweni ozithandayo, kuyinto enhle. Uzozibandakanya ekwenzeni izinto ezikuthokozisayo. Hhayi lokhu kuphela, kepha uzoncoma nezindawo onentshisekelo kuzo. Kuyena, ukuba yingxenye yokuzilibazisa kuyohlale kumenza azizwe engcono. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngeke akuphoqe ukuthi uthathe isithakazelo ezintweni azithandayo.
5. Nguye Obheke Phambili Ukuchitha Isikhathi Nami
Zibuze, akuyena yini umuntu, njalo ofuna ukuhlanganyela isikhathi sakho naye? Noma ngabe kumayelana nokubuka i-movie, ukuya epaki lokuzijabulisa, ukufunda incwadi noma ukuchitha usuku lonke ekhaya, ukhetha ukuba naye eceleni kwakho. Akunandaba noma ngabe ujabulile noma uphatheke kabi, uhlala ulangazelela ukuba nenkampani yakhe. Eqinisweni, inkampani yakhe ikwenza uzizwe ungcono.
6. Uyakuthemba Akunandaba
Umuntu okuthembayo ngokungangabazeki uyigugu leqiniso. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi lowo muntu ubeka ukholo lwakhe kuwe. Ngokunjalo, uma indoda ikuthembile naphezu kwezimo futhi ungalokothi uzingabaze izenzo zakho, amagama, njll, lokho-ke kukhombisa ukuthi umuntu ungowakho. Esikhundleni sokukholelwa kumahemuhemu nokungakuqondi kahle ngezikhathi ezithile, uzokhetha ukukuthinta.
7. Uhlala Enza Izinto Ukuveza Uthando Lwakhe Kuwe
Ngubani othe ukuze uveze uthando lwakho, udinga ukuthi uthi 'Ngiyakuthanda' ngaso sonke isikhathi? Kunezindlela eziningi zokuveza uthando lwakho kumuntu omthandayo. Kodwa-ke, kufika isikhathi lapho imibhangqwana iyeka ukwenzelana izinto zothando. Kepha uma indoda yakho isenza izinto ukukwenza uzizwe ukhethekile futhi uthandwa njengokupheka okuthile okukhethekile noma ukushiyela amanothi othando, ngakho-ke nguyena okungafanele umyeke.
8. Uhlonipha Isikhala Sakho Siqu
Ebudlelwaneni, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhloniphana isikhala somunye nomunye. Izithandani ezaziyo ukugcina imingcele enempilo futhi zihlonipha isikhala somunye nomunye ebudlelwaneni zivame ukuba nesibopho esiqinile. Ngakho-ke naka ukuthi uyakuvumela yini ukuthi ujonge 'isikhathi sami' futhi angakuphazamisi, lapho-ke udinga ukugcina leyo ndoda ingunawe kuze kube phakade.
Indoda eyiqiniso izoqala ikuphathe njengomuntu bese ikhetha intombi yayo. Uyazi ukuthi nawe unelungelo lokuphila nokuthandwa. Yize kunezinye izimpawu eziningi ezingakutshela uma umuntu wakho kunguyena okungafanele umyeke, lezi ezinye zezimpawu ezivelele kakhulu.