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Uthando ekuqaleni kokubona
Muva nje umlingisi we-Laila, u-Sunny Leone, nomyeni wakhe uDaniel Weber bamukele ekhaya ingane yentombazane enezinyanga ezingu-21 ubudala, le mbhangqwana eyayithola kwaLatur, eMaharashtra. Abazali abaziqhenyayo baqambe i-munchkin yabo encane u-Nisha Kaur Weber futhi bathi bamthanda ekuqaleni kokubona. Engakwazi nje ukuzibamba ngenxa yenjabulo efanayo, uLeone utshele iphephandaba likazwelonke nsuku zonke, ukuthi, angazi ngomunye umuntu, kodwa kithi, akubanga nandaba ukuthi ingane yethu noma wayengeyena wethu wemvelo. ingane. Kithina, kwakumayelana nokuqala umndeni futhi ngangingase ngingabi nayo [ingane ephilayo] ngenxa yezinhlelo zethu nezinye izinto eziningi kodwa sobabili sacabanga, ‘kungani singavele sithathe?
Inqwaba yosaziwayo, abavela e-Bollywood naseHollywood, nabo sebehambe ngendlela yokutholwa. Hlangana nabanye omama bethu bokutholwa abahle kanye nezingane zabo.
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Lapho eneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, uSushmita Sen waqopha umlando ngesikhathi ewina umncintiswano kaMiss Universe ngo-1994—umNdiya wokuqala ukuwina isicoco esihlonishwayo—kodwa kwaba yisinqumo sakhe sokwamukela amadodakazi akhe amabili, uRenee, lapho uSen eneminyaka engama-24, kanye no-Alisah, lapho eneminyaka engu-35, lokho kwamenza wathandwa isizwe. Umlingisi osephenduke usomabhizinisi ubehlale ekholelwa ekuphileni impilo ngokugcwele futhi angalokothi alahle ithemba noma kwenzekani. Ekhuluma nengosi yezindaba ngesipiliyoni sakhe, uthe, Ukuba ngumama ongayedwana akulula. Ngangineminyaka engu-24 ubudala futhi ngangizama kusukela ngineminyaka engu-22 ukuba ngumama ngenqubo yokutholwa. Futhi abazange bakuvumele. Kwasithatha isikhathi. Kodwa ingane yesibili (u-Alisah) empeleni yayiyimpi yasenkantolo enkulu kuneyokuqala. Ngoba eNdiya, imithetho ithi awukwazi ukuthatha indodakazi ngemva kwendodakazi ... Futhi ngangifuna ukuthatha indodakazi, ngakho-ke iminyaka engu-10 ngalwa kwase kufika u-Alisah wami. Kwaba ukulinda isikhathi eside.
Ikhredithi yesithombe: Yogen Shah
Abangane kuqala, umama okwesibili
Kwakungonyaka ka-1995 lapho uRaveena Tandon Thadani anquma ukuthatha amantombazane amabili, uChhaya, 8, noPooja, 10—bobabili abayizingane zesihlobo esasibhekene nezinkinga zezimali. Wayeneminyaka engu-21 kuphela lapho ezithatha njengomthwalo wemfanelo wokukhulisa lamantombazane amabili. Ngangazi ukuthi ngingakwazi ukukhulisa futhi nginikeze impilo enhle kubantwana ababili futhi ngaqhubeka nakho. Ngiyaziqhenya ngabo namuhla, etshela iphephandaba likazwelonke nsuku zonke. Amadodakazi ami angabangane bami abakhulu. Ngikhumbula ngishada, yibo ababehlezi emotweni bangiyisa emandap. Uthi umuzwa okhethekile kangaka. Uphinde abe nendodakazi, u-Rasha, nendodana, u-Ranbirvardhan, nomyeni u-Anil Thadani.
Yini ekujini?
U-Angelina Jolie, umlingisi omangalisayo waseHollywood futhii-philanthropist,ungumama wezingane ezintathu zokutholwa kanye nezithathu zokuzalwa. Ukholelwa ukuthi ukuba ngumama kumfundise ukuthi 'ukukhulisa' kunamandla kanjani njengemvelo, nokuthi ufuzo alunqumi ukuxhumana kwabantu. Ungacabanga ukuthi uzofana kakhulu nezingane oxhumene nazo ngofuzo, kodwa anginjalo. Ngifana kakhulu noMaddox (ingane yakhe yokuqala, eyatholwa eCambodia). Ngakho-ke, akunawo umthelela wokuthi abanye baxhumeke ngokofuzo, utshele ingosi yezindaba. Ubona izingane zakhe njengempumelelo yakhe enkulu.
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