Ngikhumbula isikhathi engasifunda ngaso ukumangala ukuhlangana kukaBennifer njengoba kwakunjalo izolo: Ngilapho, ngihlezi kusofa lapho isaziso se-Google singibuyisela ekuqaleni kwawo-2000. Izindebe ezicwebezelayo zazigcwele intukuthelo…kwenye indawo uNapster wami wayethatha amahora angu-23 ukulanda ingoma eshisa izikhotha kaNelly…futhi uJen noBen babeyinto esemthethweni. Akukhona ukuthi nginakho ngokumelene no-ex wakamuva ka-J.Lo, u-Alex Rodriguez. Esikhundleni salokho, bengihlala ngilwela u-Lopez ukuthi athole uthando futhi azinze nomuntu okhethekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lowo muntu ungubani.
Kodwa ingabe kumane kwaqondana ukuthi lezi zinyoni ezimbili zothando zithole indlela yazo yokubuyelana ngemva kwayo yonke le minyaka? Ngaphendukela kuchwepheshe wezinkanyezi uMichelle Fedrizzi, ongumsunguli nomnikazi wazo I-Auric , isitolo sezempilo esiza abantu bathole ukukhanyiselwa ngokomoya. Akagcinanga nje ngokunikeza ukuqonda okukhethekile ngo-J.Lo kanye no-Affleck (okuyi-Leos bobabili), kodwa uphinde wahlaziya bonke ubudlelwano bangaphambili balo mculi futhi wabubeka kusukela kumdlalo omubi wezinkanyezi kuya kongcono kakhulu.
Izithombe zikaJoe Buissink/GettyOKUBI: UCris Judd (Leo)
UJudd ungumdwebi wezingoma ophumelelayo nomdansi oyisipele, owaziwa kabanzi ngokuthi ngumyeni wesibili ka-Lopez. Wahlangana no-J.Lo ngo-2001 kusethi yevidiyo yakhe yomculo ethi Love Don’t Cost A Thing, futhi basheshe bayishaya—kangangoba babopha ifindo likasofa silahlane ngemva nje kwalokho.
UCris ukhipha umlilo wakhe wangaphakathi ngeLanga lakhe kanye nokukhuphuka kweLeo neNyanga e-Virgo, uFedrizzi utshele iPampereDpeopleny. Bobabili bayasizana ukuthi bakhuphuke ngesikhathi lapho impilo izizwa ilufifi noma nalapho noma yiliphi iqembu lizizwa libambekile.
Umbhangqwana wabiza ukuthi uyayeka ku-2003, noma kunjalo, okuyinto (ngokusho kukaFedrizzi) kwakuyisinyathelo esihle ngoba i-chemistry yabo yayiyinkanuko ngaphezu kothando. Inyanga yakhe iku-Virgo kanye ne-Venus yakhe kuCancer, ngakho-ke angahlaziya futhi akhethe kahle ebudlelwaneni, echaza. Lapho izidingo zakhe zingagcwaliseki, angase acasuke ngempela noma aze avale umlomo futhi angakhulumi ngendlela uJ.Lo adinga ngayo.
Ron Galella, Ltd./Getty ImagesOKUBI: Ojani Noa (Gemini)
Ungase uqaphele umyeni wokuqala ka-J.Lo, owahlangana nomculi ngesikhathi esebenza endaweni yokudlela. Umbhangqwana washada ngo-1997 futhi wahlukanisa kungakapheli unyaka owodwa kamuva. UFedrizzi wavuma ukuthi uNowa wayengumdlali ohloniphekile we-Lopez ... phakathi naleso sikhathi sokuphila kwakhe.
Uwuthando olumnandi oluveza uhlangothi lwakhe oluncane olumsulwa njengoba emsiza ukuthi ahlole ukuthi ungubani neLanga lakhe ku-Gemini, esho. Umfundisa ukuthi ayivula kanjani inhliziyo yakhe kodwa—ikakhulukazi—ahlale egxile kuJenny weqiniso osebhlokini.
Ngeshwa, ubudlelwano babo babungenazo izimfanelo ezihlala njalo. Imvelo yakhe yeGemini imenza abuyele emuva naphambili nalokhu akufunayo nalapho eya khona, okwenza kube nzima kuye ukuhola u-J.Lo ngokweqiniso, kwengeza uFedrizzi.
Andrew Toth/Getty IzithombeMEH: Alex Rodriguez (Leo)
Rodriguez kuhlongozwa u-J.Lo emuva ngo-2019, kodwa bakuhoxisa ukuthembisana kwabo ngaphambi kokwenza izifungo. Naphezu kokudumala kwethu, uFedrizzi wachaza ukuthi u-A-Rod wadlala indima ebalulekile endabeni yothando ka-Lopez, njengoba wamfundisa ukuthi yini okufanele ayibheke kumlingani wesikhathi esizayo.
Laba bobabili banobumnandi obuningi ndawonye kodwa futhi balinganisela kahle lapho sebebadala, kwengeza uFedrizzi. U-Alex ufundisa u-J.Lo ukuthi ehlise ijubane futhi angenele okwengeziwe kowesifazane wakhe futhi avumele owesilisa ukuba ahole, njengoba emthambisa ngeNyanga yakhe enamanzi ku-Pisces ne-Mercury in Cancer. Ukhipha imizwelo yakhe yangaphakathi, kuyilapho yena ekhipha ilangabi lakhe langaphakathi!
UFedrizzi wachaza ukuthi ukuswela kuka-A-Rod kwaba ukuwa ebudlelwaneni babo, wengeza ngokuthi, u-Alex unenyanga yePisces kanye neMercury kuCancer, okusho ukuthi unomzwelo ngempela futhi uzoya lapho amanzi emyisa khona. Udinga ukuqinisekiswa okuningi ngokomzwelo futhi akhuliswe futhi aboshwe. Futhi ngenxa yesimiso esimatasa sika-J.Lo, akakwazi ukumnika lokho—ngakho ngokuvamile uyofuna kwenye indawo ukuze anelise lezo zidingo ezingokomzwelo.
Kevin Winter / Getty IzithombeOKUNGCONO: Sean Combs (Scorpio)
U-Sean Combs (AKA Puff Daddy, Diddy, njll.) ube nokungqubuzana okufushane no-Lopez, kodwa kwaba okukhumbulekayo. Baqale bahlangana ngo-1999 ngesikhathi besebenza ndawonye kuvidiyo yomculo ethi If You Had My Love. Njengoba uFedrizzi eveza, uCombs noLopez bebehambisana uma kuziwa emsebenzini, kodwa hhayi ezothando lwesikhathi eside. Nokho, i-symbiosis yabo yokudala iyona eyenza ama-Combs ahluke kwabanye ozakwethu.
Laba bobabili benzelwe ukuthi babe ngabantu abanobuhlakani ndawonye futhi babe yisizinda somunye nomunye ukuze bakhe umculo nobuciko ndawonye, echaza. Womabili amaqembu ane-Jupiter yawo e-Libra kanye ne-Saturn e-Taurus, ngakho akha izisekelo eziqinile kwezobuciko, imali nomculo.
Izithombe zika-Ethan Miller/GettyOMKHULU: UMarc Anthony (Virgo)
UMarc Anthony ungumyeni wesithathu ka-J.Lo futhi ungubaba wezingane zakhe ezimbili: amawele aneminyaka engu-13 ubudala u-Emme noMax. Kuyo yonke imishado yakhe, uMarc Anthony wayefaneleka kakhulu ku-J.Lo, kusho uFedrizzi. Akukhona nje ukuthi banokufana ulimi lothando , kodwa futhi balinganisela ezicini eziningi zokuphila.
Laba bobabili bayakwazi ukuzithoba uma kuziwa othandweni, futhi bobabili babonisa uthando ngezenzo zenkonzo nokuxhumana, kusho uFedrizzi. UMarc uneVenus yakhe e-Libra, kanti u-J.Lo uneVenus yakhe ku-Gemini, ngakho bobabili bafundisana ngokulinganisela nokubili othandweni nasempilweni.
Kevin Winter / Getty IzithombeKAKHULU: Ben Affleck (Leo)
Futhi ekugcineni, okuhambisana kakhulu kozakwethu baka-J.Lo: UBen Affleck . Lo mbhangqwana waqala kudala ekuqaleni kwawo-2000 futhi wahlela ukushada ngo-September 2003. Ngeshwa, bawumisa umshado (okulandelwa ubuhlobo babo) ngaphambi kokuhamba ngezindlela zabo ezihlukene.
Izindaba ezinhle? Nakuba u-Lopez noma u-Affleck bengakaqinisekisi ubuhlobo babo obuvuselelwe, uFedrizzi uveze ukuthi ukuhambisana kwabo kwezinkanyezi kungenye yohlobo oluthile, futhi kunamandla kunawo wonke amabhangqa kaJen.
U-Ben no-J.Lo bangakhuluma nemiphefumulo yomunye nomunye ngendlela okungekho muntu ongakwazi ngayo, kodwa futhi babonisana (okuhle nokubi), etshela uPampereDpeopleny. Laba bobabili baneNyanga yabo ku-Scorpio kanye ne-Mercury ku-Leo, ngakho ubudlelwano babo obuzungeze imizwelo nokuxhumana bungajula kakhulu futhi bugcwaliseke.
