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Sonke sizalwa sinezici ezithile zemvelo. Abanye bethu bacosha izici endleleni. Ngezinye izikhathi, izimo zisenza siziphathe ngendlela ethile. Noma ngabe isimo sinjani, isimilo sethu silolongwa ngokuya ngendawo kanye nefa.
Ukuba nempahla kungenye yezici ezinjalo. Sonke sinayo kodwa ngamazinga ahlukahlukene. Uma iphelelwa yimingcele, ingaba imbangela yenkathazo kulabo abasizungezile. Wake waba sesimweni lapho wawuzibuze ukuthi ungathandana kanjani nendoda ephethe izinto?
Lapho uqala ukuthandana nowesilisa, kancane kancane uqala ukuthola ama-vibes ngesimo sakhe sengqondo nangendlela asabela ngayo ezimweni. Ukhumbula amathiphu athile wokuphola wabesifazane, qaphela lezi zimpawu zokutholakala. Lokhu kungakusiza uthathe isinqumo ngekusasa lobudlelwano bakho.
Ungabhekana kanjani nobunikazi
Ukuba nempahla kungaba yisici esisodwa kuphela somuntu futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uthole ezinye izinto eziningi ezinhle kule ndoda ukuphola naye. Kepha ukungena kakhulu kungacasula kancane. Zama ukuthola ukuthi ungathandana kanjani nendoda ephethe bese ucabanga ngokuyisa ubuhlobo bakho ezingeni elilandelayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, izimo zengqondo zingaguqulwa. Kuphakathi kokuthi ube yilokho afuna ukuba ube yikho noma umsiza aqede ukungazethembi kwakhe.
Mqonde: Kungenzeka ukuthi isehlakalo esithile empilweni yesoka lakho simenze waba nomnikazi. Zama ukumqonda nangendlela akhule ngayo. Kufanele kube nokuthile okuhlobene nempilo yakhe okumenza aziphathe ngendlela ethile.
Khuluma naye: Uma unakekela isoka lakho futhi ufuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano bakho nalo, khona-ke lisize likwazi ukunqoba ukungaqiniseki nokwesaba kwalo. Khuluma naye futhi nenze izimo zivune ukuthi akuvulele. Kungenzeka ukuthi akazange azithole ekhululekile ukuxoxa nothile ngemizwa yakhe. Ukukhuluma ngezinto kungamsiza nje ukuthi achithe izinto zakhe.
Yabelana ngezinto naye: Lapho wazi ukuthi isoka lakho linamasiko, ungamniki ithuba lokungabaza. Yabelana naye ngemicabango yakho, imibono yakho, lapho ukhona nezinhlelo zakho. Mbandakanye emisebenzini othanda ukuyenza futhi ummemele emhlabeni wakho.
Mqinisekise: Lapho umuntu enempahla, ubuye abe nokungabaza okuncane ngezinto. Njengezeluleko zokuphola zabesifazane abanamasoka anazo, kubalulekile ukuthi uqinisekise indoda yakho ngawe ngokuba khona kwayo. Futhi, ungashiyi indawo yokungabaza engqondweni yakhe maqondana nanoma yini oyenzayo. Ukungabaza okuncane kungaba nesibopho semiphumela eyinhlekelele.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi uma ucabanga ngesimo sokuthi ungathandana kanjani nendoda ephethe, isithombe sibukeka sinzima kakhulu ukusiphatha. Noma kunjalo, akukho okubi ngokuzama. Kodwa-ke, uma umuntu wakho enezinto eziningi futhi engazimisele ukugudluka, sekuyisikhathi sokuphakamisa iminwe yakho emihlanu bese uyavalelisa.